right I'm 18 and gay. My teacher is perfect. We're so much alike in a lot of ways everyone tells me and she makes me laugh basically dont tell me this is a school girl crush because im old enough to know that this is something more. Anyway I had an idea of maybe sending something with my number attatched (not letting her know it's me) then she would probably text to find out who it was and I wouldn't tell her until maybe I finish my last year, just so I can find out more about her. Do you see the harm if no-one knew and she didn't know? It's killing me how much I like her.
2006-12-12 09:49:19 · 16 answers · asked by Nicola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That doesnt sound like a bad idea. I mean what do you have to lose. If she ends up text messaging you once she finds out (once your done school) and says she is not interested then i guess your heat is broken. But if she says she is interested then you will not regret anything. Live for the moment. You only have one life to live, so live it up girl! Like i said you honestly have nothing to lose. Go for it and good luck!
2006-12-12 09:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ridin' Dirty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is she married? I'd drop this unless she's free. If she's free, then you ought to see if she's homosexual as well. If she's not...I'd drop it then, too.
Say she's both single and gay...try asking her out after you graduate from her class. Maybe you two can have a relationship, but it will be hard if she accidentally calls you by a pet name or something in the middle of class. You'll never hear the end of it, either.
By trying to find out if she's single and gay, that will keep you occupied for a while and you'll feel like you're getting somewhere with her.
Good luck, and take care :)
2006-12-12 17:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by Tawny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOt to say much but, that is a line I would not worry about crossing to you get out of school. There has been so much drama over teachers and students. The teachers are the ones that get in trouble over it. SO if you like her wait until you graduate and are not a student any longer.
2006-12-12 17:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by momdadand4kids 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't even go there. It's unethical, against school rules and in some cases illegal for teachers to "date" their students. Come on- you say you're old enough to know it's not a school girl crush, yet you want to do silly little secret gifts with your phone number? If you care as much as you claim, don't jeopardize her career by trying to trick her into anything like this. Get real.
2006-12-12 17:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie I do understand. However, she cannot date a student. How about you stay close like you are now. When you graduate then approach her however you like. You will put her in a tough spot if you do it now. Even if she want's to be you it isn't a good time. Hang in there until you are no longer a student.
2006-12-12 17:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never find out how she feels until you ask her first. Maybe she is not gay. Why waste your breath on something that maybe doomed to failure. Ask her directly if she calls and find out.
2006-12-12 17:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that sounds kind of creepy and stalker-ish. If you give her your cell number and expect her to just text you, how do you know she won't call the number and find out who you are?
Plus if she isn't also homosexual, you're SOL.
2006-12-12 17:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't lead her on like that. maybe if you feel the same way after you graduate, you can let her know then
2006-12-12 17:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by felita2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewww. your way over your head, do you want to be on the six o'clock news one evening?? omg don't tell me you go to one of them all girl schools. no wonder why i love co-ed schools. no don't go fot it.
2006-12-12 17:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by Hollow ✌ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
momdad4kids has a point you better not cross that line.
2006-12-12 17:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋