I met him in october and i like him every since. He talks to me and stuff and i really like him. He has not have a g/f before but he is 15 and his parents say if i ask him out he might say no b/c he is not ready for that but i think he is and he is.I am scared to ask him out b/c i don't what him to get scared or something and say no and we never talk again.I need help.
2006-12-12 09:44:49 · 25 answers · asked by lizzie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may ask him and get a "yes". But what's it worth if he's no good to date. His family was gracious enough to warn you.
Of course he's not ready ... he's a 15 yr. old boy. But 15 yr. old girls don't realize this until they're 20.
2006-12-12 09:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by acrobatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love this day and age...
everything goes, and the girrs are "afraid" to ask out the boys...
Okay well here is what I think and i'm old (35) btw....
But I think you should just try and really be BEST FRIENDS first.
He is 15, and has NEVER HAD A G.F. ???
What? did his parents like keep him in a glass bubble, or what, o my gosh!!!???
Yeah, he is probably ready.
And I think you should bring it up, like you know, that whole...I like you more than just a friend...talk.
Still, I do think you should go for the best friends thing as well, because afterall, what is a relationship with the one you love...if they are not your best friend first, then what are you even together for anyway???
But do indeed make your feelings known to him.
I'm sorry for sounding rude in this next question...
Is he , okay...wait. I will word it nicer.
is he mentally challenged or something?
Anyway, somewhere along the line, you do need to make your feelings know to him.
Go slow, something that it seems no one ever does anymore, maybe that is why the divorce rate is so high.
DJ
2006-12-12 09:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by gemseeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I think you should listen to his parents rather then yourself. They have lived with him 15 years and you only know him since october?Besides 15 is too young for a guy to date. He's definetly not ready for a relationship!
2006-12-14 12:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As master Yoda said, "Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering."
Face your fears and ask in a very gentle, non-threatening way. If he really is ready, then things should go well enough. If he gets freaked out and doesn't talk to you, then he wasn't ready, was he? But you did the right thing asking his parents. Ask his friends. I'm sure they'll let him know, and then it won't be a shock if you ask him. Or he may get enough nerve to ask you. Either way, you'll know. Knowing is far better than guessing and getting all worked up.
Good luck,
O-man
2006-12-12 09:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by Capt. Obvious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the age-old "afraid of rejection" feeling eh?
Everyone has gone through this
Why don't you talk to him about it instead of asking us
Also talking to your parents or his parents might help
Tell them how you feel about him. Tell him your feelings for him.
I'm sure he and his family will understand as long as you are a good girl. You are not even giving him a chance.
2006-12-12 09:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might just say yes you will never know if you don't ask maybe you could write him a letter so he can think it over without feeling under pressure just tell him if its not possible to carry the relationship further that you want to stay friends with him as he is important to you gud luck x x x
2006-12-12 09:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by upyafartpipe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure I did. You dont somewhat ought to say something formal or prepared words. Have a communique with your destiny in guidelines... make it casual and then finally raise your destiny spouse. in the adventure that they dont furnish you the blessing then its as a lot as you what you want to do. it truly is going to no longer keep you from marrying her. How a lot older are you?
2016-11-25 23:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ask him. it's sounds like it's his mom who's not ready for him to date, not him. if you make decisions based on fear, then you're only going to end up regretting it, so you're better off just getting it out there caus he's probably too shy to hav a gf and needs you to take the initiative
2006-12-12 09:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by stevenrox1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him. the worst thing that can happen i he will say no, and then u 2 can still b friends. Don't worry. that's how i got my b/f. and i worked. Starting the conversation is the hardest part. be straight forward.
2006-12-12 09:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy asks out girl, not girl asks out boy.
2006-12-12 09:47:33 · answer #10 · answered by Joe C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋