Here is the story:
We started off as friends with benifits during my 1st year of college and then when the school year finished I had to go home for the summer and right before summer began we got in to an argument. Furthermore, the summer went by and we never spoke to each other. Then as the summer ended, he called me 5 days before school started asking me if we could hang out once I got back to school. The wired thing about this situation is that after we got in to the argument, I never called him and vise versa, now he calls back and wants to get together. What do you think this guy wants? I mean this guy can have any girl, I just can not figure out why he wants to still talk to me? I am scared to ask him why he is with me cause am afriad we won't be friends no more.
Additional details: Before he never would let me spend the night at his house and now he does. Another things that he would never let me do is have sex with him on his bed and now he does.
2006-12-12 09:23:42 · 10 answers · asked by Ms. Know It All 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The argument we had was about him not coming through for me when I need him.
2006-12-12 09:38:41 · update #1
booty call
2006-12-12 09:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by Justaguy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever heard the expression "Distance makes the heart grow fonder?" Maybe your time apart made him realize he has a thing for you... I may be wrong too. I know you said you don't want to talk to him about this but maybe you SHOULD. Whether you want to continue being JUST friends with benefits or you are looking for a relationship. Honesty is usually the best policy. Plus leading him on (I'm not saying you ARE, he just may see it like that) will make him really not want to be your friend. Good Luck!
2006-12-12 09:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by hoppinalongthelilypads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, this guy seems like a jerk to me, not a friend. He only seems to want you when he can't have you, or anyone else to occupy his time. And I hate to say it seems like all he wants is sex. I wonder what the argument you guys had was about. Don't be afraid to ask him what his deal is though. Life is too short to put up with that crap, when you could be finding you a guy that looks better and treats you better then this guy is. YOU DESERVE BETTER
2006-12-12 09:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by tmmygrl210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one, be honest with him and if he turns you down where you two cant even have a friendship, he doesnt respect you and if there is no respect you probably do not need to be staying the night with him.
2006-12-12 09:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be with him. He obviously had a whole summer to think things through
2006-12-12 09:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur fool to stay with is guy.
u need to understand that all he want is SEX.
Grow up Girl
Good Luck!
2006-12-12 09:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Could be getting with you because you let him?
2006-12-12 09:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know maybe he just had to think about the arguement and stuff like that
2006-12-12 09:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by jamesre51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well pretty much either he wants you because your the one that he wants, or he justs wants some puzzy
2006-12-12 09:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by eclipsefreak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm you are ms. know it all. shouldnt you KNOW the answer to this?
2006-12-12 09:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by kay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋