I had to go to a company party today and there was this guy there that I used to work with who knows that I (he thinks used to) like him but I discovered when I saw him that I was still attracted to him. Anyways, I was talking to some people and he came up and was all, "Hi ____, how are you?" And I tried to talk to him but no words came out and I just kinda smiled, made a wierd noise and walked away. The look on his face was, "Um, okaaay". I felt stupid so I went to try and talk to him later but as I approached, he turned the other way like he was trying to avoid me and didnt respond until I said his name. Then he talked to me but he was not smiling AT ALL, and the conversation felt awkward. He was staring me in the eyes the whole time I was talking to him but that could just be because he is confident. My questions are... 1.) Do you think he hates me now? 2.) Do you think he thinks I am dumb? 3.) Did I embarrass him when I walked away 4.) Was it obvious that I still like him?
2006-12-12 09:23:02 · 4 answers · asked by RockabillyBanana 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
k, for questions 1 and 2 no i dont think that he thinks your dumb and i really dont think that he hates you either, i just think that he might have been a little shocked and curious as to your response. remember guys dont understand us at all!!!!!!!! question 3 you could have embarrased him but like i said i think he was more shocked that the girl he thought liked him responded the way you did. question 4, i think that you should make it alittle more obvious the way you feel about him considering you probably confused the hell out of him. good luck!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-12 09:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are over-thinking the whole thing. If the time comes again and you run into him, I would say Hi, How's it go in? Look, the other day when you walked up and my mouth appeared to be glued shut and I walked away.....(ha ha, laughing) well, I wanted to apologize for that , you must ht ink I'm a dork. Sorry. Can we start over? Maybe we could go see a movie sometime?
My guess is that when he looked into your eyes while you were talking he was thinking waht pretty eyes, or? but It probably wasn't negative thoughts. Go with the flow.. and try not to have "glued-mouth" when you run into him again.
:)
2006-12-12 17:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by SWF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...
Its possible that you're reading too much into the situation and just let things flow
2006-12-12 17:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah Leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say move on and forget about him.
2006-12-12 17:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Contesta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋