I met a man on another dating site, we hit it off great after a couple of weeks of dating and mutually agreed to focus on each other. At the time he told me he had another profile on yahoo personals. He has indeed deleted his profile form the one site we met on but has yet to delete the one on yahoo and it shows very recent activity.
I'm a little concerned.
Should I be and what should I do about this if anything?
2006-12-12 09:19:26 · 11 answers · asked by maryann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What gives you the right to exclusivity? Have you done anything for him? Why are you so special that he should give up all other pursuits? If you can answer those questions, then you can tell him to cancel the Yahoo thing. If not, you can't tell him what to do. You can ask him nicely, but you should not be telling him what to do.
2006-12-12 09:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep my eyes open because just because he is on yahoo personals does not mean that is not married maybe his wife is in the military; you can have many profiles and many different names and there are hundreds of different dating sites out there...for some its just a hobby...i would be very concerned...who needs bars any more all guys have to do anymore is look up women on the net...be careful for pervs who lurk out there who are on the look out looking to rape women too! Maybe he is still meeting women behind your back..you just don't know.....sorry to tell you that...because if he was serious he would have gotten rid of that account already,....he is getting some good hits from that account....i'm telling you!!!!!!! your first guess is correct..
2006-12-12 17:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by hatchetmistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bad thing about the net is u really don't know who is on the other end. I am not trying to sound mean but, that is the way I feel. There is nothing better than meeting people face to face then you can get to know them for real. Also why don't you go and hang out with your friends and take a night out. It may do you some good.
2006-12-12 17:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by momdadand4kids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are concerned by it, why not set up a bogus account and "flirt" with him - I met a girl on an online dating and I won't even login to delete/hide the profile - as the last login date is shown.
2006-12-12 17:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shows that he is still somewhat reluctant to focus his total attention to you and he is keeping an out available so that if things don't go well, he can leave....
I would talk to him and see how he feels but this may scare him away since you are checking up on him and you just let him know that you are keeping tabs....
2006-12-12 17:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and check out http://www.datearichguy.com better luck next time...hes not being honest. Did you tell him you know about the Yahoo site??
2006-12-13 01:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post a personal ad on Yahoo and send him a "flirt"
2006-12-12 17:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him to delet it because it makes you feel unconfertable, if he don't then he is doing something behind your back and if he does then you have nothing to worry about
2006-12-12 17:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by eclipsefreak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...at least he told you he had the profile....ask him.....see what he says...maybe he is keeping his options open ...and that would be ok if he is honest about it....good luck
2006-12-12 17:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just dont do anything and if you feel that you have to do ssomething just see if he is talking to other gurls
2006-12-12 17:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by SexyMami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋