Rebound guy? Need advice on what to do?

Question

I know this girl and we have some intimacy. LAtely shes been very cold and not as affectionate as she used to be. She then mentions that she saw something last night that reminded her of her ex. She broke up not too long ago. AS of right now, I kinda feel like Im just the rebound guy. I mean, if she felt i was the right one, she wouldnt have mentioned her ex-bf. Or maybe the breakup was just too recent. 30 days ago. am i overreacting on thsi one? girls give me some advice on thisplease. is it worth being the rebound guy? or i should just forget her and move on? thanks

Answer 1

You should try to have as much sex with her as possible and not be surprised when she moves on.

In the mean time, you should keep a couple of plates spinning too. Mentioning your ex is rude. You should start mentioning your exes to her and see how she likes it. When the tables are turned, women get pissy and huffy and puffy, but when they are doing it to you, it's OK. That's women for you in a nutshell. They are just rude, obnoxious beings.

Answer 2

Okay, here's what you can do. If you really like the girl, I say stick around, but guard your heart. I've had so many rebound guys it's ridiculous. I use them to make me feel better. It's wrong!! so if you want to try at a relationship, just be her friend. Let her see how it would be with you. But beware of giving her your heart so it won't get broken. If she's mentioning her ex, she still thinks about him, she still has feelings for him. You should still see other people so it won't be like wasted time if she doesn't be with you. If you see her making progress with getting over her ex then drop those other girls. ask yourself if she's worth it.

Answer 3

forget her...

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Answer 4

Suggesting you discuss this with her, heart to heart, then make your decision from that.