I have met this guy online and I think I have fallen for him. He is so sweet and we have a lot in common we e-mail every day and I wish we could meet - has this happened to you? What can I do......?
2006-12-12 09:14:49 · 18 answers · asked by Daisy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it is possible, however, when you have never met and are hidden behind a computer it can be deceiving. What you may be falling in with is just an attachment or the idea of him - an illusion I guess. If you do end up meeting, you should arrange it to be in a very public place (you can't be too careful these days) and maybe bring a few friends along too. I would continue to chat with this guy and see what happens. If you don't ever meet, then at least you met a great guy to converse with. Good luck and Merry Christmas! :)
P.S. Don't listen to Richard G. LOL That damn picture......
2006-12-12 09:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have met a few of guys on line. The conversations were amazing. Then we met in person and that is the true test. # 1- We met in person. We truly like each other as people ( friends), but not a love connection. (still talk from time to time) # 2- He started the love thing WAY fast online, met in person. Let's just say the fantasy was more than the reality (over) # 3- Friends. A sweet guy who is not that into me.
See what I'm trying to tell you? You need to meet in person, try not let your heart get too involved until you do, be smart and be safe.
Good luck to you! I hoped I helped in some way. : )
2006-12-12 17:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's very possible. But at least talk on the phone first before you meet. When you meet in person, understand the spark may not be there like it is talking to him on the computer. I'm thinking some of us have tendancy to fall in love with our imaginations. I, too, have met someone on-line and I told her last friday, when we met for the first time, I was falling in love with her. Now we're meeting for dinner tomorrow night, so we'll see. Good luck and be very careful.
2006-12-12 17:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are psychotic. You are displaying a stalker's mentality. All of the things you say about love are in your head only. You don't even know if the other guy is actually a guy.
You only fall in love after there has been some "real" history between you and your partner. Anything else is lust, or just premature puppy love.
Meet him first, and then make up your mind. Otherwise, you are a psycho. You probably just like him.
2006-12-12 17:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say YES it is possible.
Many years ago I met a guy online from Canada. We both ended up falling in love online and thru phone conversations. We even flew back and forth between the us and Canada to see each other.
Is your guy close by? If not then give it up now. Long distance relationships do not work and they are heartbreaking.
2006-12-12 17:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by mrspunkmeister2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's impossible. You're falling in love with the idea of what you think he might be. In fact, he could be a woman. He could be a married woman messing around. Or a 15 year old boy with 3 of this friends playing games. He could be a 70 year old pervert. You don't know. To say you're in love based on emails from a stranger is ludicrous.
2006-12-12 17:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just depends on what your definition of “love” is. If love is just a feeling then certainly you can “fall” in love that way. I strongly suggest that you be very careful with anyone you meet online! In my experience people are not always themselves online and you most likely have a slanted view of this person.
2006-12-12 17:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by mikearion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it has happened to me, BUT you have to be really careful, I've spoken to him via email, chat AND phone to later find out he was a total LIE, he said he was 17 and he was actually 57!!! We "shared" a whole lot in common but I guess he was just adept at fooling people...BUT it has not let me down, despite that experience, I am falling for a guy I met online (sounds pathetic) but I am and we're planning on meeting next year.
2006-12-12 17:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by ♥JCluvsu2!♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hasn't happened with e-mail but over the phone. Well you can never really tell what a person is like until you meet them and spend time with them. Because you can pretend to be anything in writing but be totally different in person. So buyer beware.
2006-12-12 17:17:53 · answer #9 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure this person is legit,I hope you haven't given him any money,you need to be careful and find a mate you can see.Your feeling lust& very vulnerable.
2006-12-12 17:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by fuckyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋