My ex and I dated for nearly a year and a half, we had numerous fights but remained together. I told her we should take some time and hang out with friends. I think about her all the time and wish I could have her back, however now she has a new boyfriend. We still talk everyday and tell eachother "I love you". I asked her to be with me but she said she cares for this other person and that we cant be right now. I asked her if she wasnt dating this person if we would, and shes said "yes". The other day she told me her new boyfriend asked her if we still talk and she lied to him and said No. I dont know what to do, I love her so much and want to marry her one day. Do you have any advice for me? Thanks
2006-12-12 09:13:57 · 17 answers · asked by Will 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find somebody new. If she really loved you like she said, she wouldn't be able to be with anyone else. True love is kinda funny like that.
Gonna be brutal here but she's keeping you around in case the other guy doesn't work out.
You're worth more than that and there's a girl out there who is capable of seeing that. You just gotta find her.
2006-12-12 09:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by Stacey K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don't, they never were. If she loved you, she wouldn't be able to keep away. She likes her new boyfriend more than she's letting on and probably doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
You ended it but seems like you're only interested now there's a challenge involved in getting her back. If you got here back, what factors have changed that made you end it in the first place?
I personally think you should move on and stop speaking to her so much and let her get on with it. As i said if she wants you she will let you know.
2006-12-12 09:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Bleu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None, for you, but I think this girl of yours could use a talking-to. I think what she's doing is VERY wrong. Lying to her current boyfriend? Still telling her ex she loves him?
Do you really WANT a girl like that? Who's to say she wouldn't do the same to you if you got back together???
2006-12-12 09:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by A W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sorry to hear about your troubles. If you guys are meant to be then you will. SHe may just need to try something new for awhile but, if she truly loves you she will be back. Just make sure she completely understands how you feel. All you can do after that is wait and see how things work out. I wish you the best of luck. PS be extra sweet to her girls like that stuff!
2006-12-12 09:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by momdadand4kids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but you should move on. If it's meant to be you guys can catch up with each other later on. Gain some experience and perspective while your away it will help you when you guys re-unite. Good luck!
2006-12-12 09:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on because she has. It's just that simple. Just because she says she loves you but it's not in a romantic sense.
2006-12-12 09:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way. Her boyfriend asks her if she still talks to you and she says no. She said "no" not because she is ashamed of you, but because she doesn't want her boyfriend to know that you 2 still talk and say "I love you" and stuff. In her mind, she is cheating on him because she still considers you a boyfriend. She may have feelings for this person and not want to hurt his feelings, but if she really loved him, she would be truthful to him. It maybe hard for her, but she is going to have to make a choice because it is unfair to you to wait around and it is unfair to her boyfriend to keep lying to him.
2006-12-12 09:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by man_of_mustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woahhh man .... dude you are in a horrible situation... the best advice i could tell you is forget about her and never get back with her.. reason being is that she says she "loves you" but shes with some 1 else... that total B.S.... shes having fun banging some new guy and making sure your still heart broken... you need to stop talking to her and live your life... like i say Carpe Diem ... you know... life is too short to deal with a girl who is playing games with you.. you totally dont need that.... trust me dude your playing with fire and your just prolonging your heartbreak.... just end it
2006-12-12 09:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-19 19:41:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is playing games with you , and your letting her.
It's time to move on!! It didnt work the first time what makes you think it'll work this time. IT WONT
2006-12-12 09:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by LL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋