Because we the girls sometimes can’t read the mind of guys just like they can’t read ours. Even though both the guy and the girl want to have a good relationship..but some how they don’t tell each other what bothers us.. knowing that there maybe enough love that the other person won’t leave him/her even if the know it. So in general if the guys could tell the girl what are the things we girls do that bother you guys. Could there be anything?
2006-12-12 09:08:28 · 22 answers · asked by CHICK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ya what are the Speak UP?
2006-12-12 09:11:44 · update #1
First off THANK YOU for asking insteading of assuming like the the rest of your sex.....different men differ on this so here is my 2 sense...don't be "careful" loving me....go out on that limb, don't be affraid to say i love you first, buy a cute gift write a love note....stop holding back until you are "sure" he feels the same way...too many time my girl has been too cautions with me and romance is replaced with complacency......tell him how you feel SHOW him how you feel and if you're lucky he will show it back....if he doesn't then he isn't for you, move on and find a man who knows how to love a woman in return
2006-12-12 09:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most of all....the necesity for a girl to crave senseless drama. Most girls I know (not all, but most) can't just be happy being happy. If things are going well in the relationship, she immediately becomes paranoid and creates drama. It may be over something big, something small, or even something completely made up.
My advice is: dont look for something to argue about. Just enjoy each other and try to let the little stuff go. I.E. If you are walking through the mall with your man and he just glances at another girl...this is NOT a reason to fight so he can apologize and prove his love to you.
2006-12-12 09:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by davi1033 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Haha... BDH248, "whilst they say "regardless of'' or "i think"....it kinda makes u sense unconfortable" I in simple terms would desire to point out which you purely did what you're complaining females do! "it kinda" why no longer say it makes me sense uncomfortable? Be greater decisive boy, advance the back bone!!! LOL i'm no longer a guy and that i'm no longer bi or a lesbian yet what i do unlike approximately different females is they gossip way too plenty... they are able to be very slutty around guy's then pass and whinge that one and all guy's opt for is intercourse etc. What i do unlike approximately myself (reason i'm a woman) is that i'm very loud and could be too talkative.
2016-10-05 05:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by shimp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rule !!
Different kind of guys are bothered by different kind of things in different kind of girls..
Dialogue is the solution. It opens the doors to smooth relations.
2006-12-12 09:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Dragon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the only thing that bothers me about my girlfriend is that she is scared that I'll do what her ex's and friends has done to her in the past, I wish she will trust me and believe me when I tell her that I ain't going to take advantage of her. other then that she is the perfect girl of my dreams.
2006-12-12 09:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by eclipsefreak 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
over controlling girls bother us. we dont mind them havin some power, but when they take advantage of the fact that a guy is whipped we get pissed
2006-12-12 09:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
DOUBLE TALK... i hate it when she does that...
NOT BEING SPECIFIC IN WHAT SHE WANTS
OVER SENSATIVE....
but ive got her undercontrol now... im a stand-up comic so instead of getting mad i just throw it back at her in a funny way, this way she knows i dont like it and her feelings dont get hurt
2006-12-12 09:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how they think they are all that. how they think they can get anybody they want. if they are rude, curse, have a bad attitude. If they keep talkin to you even though you don't want them to. loud, and moisy, and laugh like an animal. you get the point.
2006-12-12 09:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wish my ex had been more fun and acted the same way around me as she did around her friends, she was always complaining about the same things too. Twas very annoying.
2006-12-12 09:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by pat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband says I spend too much money on my credit card.
2006-12-12 09:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋