This guy was showing alot of signs of interest.
Whenever I'd see him, he'd say Hi, talk to me and so on.
He asked me random questions and sometimes I'd initiate conversations to. Well..one day he didn't. So I went to him and asked him a question about school. Then after it was quiet a few minutes, he got up and went somewhere else. So a little later I went and talked to him alittle more. Then after it was quiet a few more minutes, he got up again. Well after that I was sorta embarrassed, so I didn't go to him anymore. Everyone always says that if I'm shy and don't talk to the guys I like, they might take it the wrong way and think I don't like them anymore..so I take the advice and do something about it..and then this goes and happens!
What happened?
Does he not like me anymore?
He never says HI or Bye like he used to..he acts like I'm not even there.
I was going to give him a stocking of candy for Christmas..should I still.....or no?
2006-12-12 09:04:34 · 8 answers · asked by .: Brunette Beauty :. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm assuming that you are still in high school and if this is the case- do not worry! Boys are weird at this age.... If he started talking to you- and then just ignored you, I would probably ask him if something was up.... did he hear a rumor about you? Was it something you said? If there isn't an answer- or if he ignores you again- drop him like a bad habit! I wouldn't push it any further. If he doesn't want to talk to you- or all of a sudden changed his mind- that's his loss sweety. Life is too precious to waste it on someone who obviously doesn't know what he's missing. You need to wait for the guy that does know. And like I said- boys are weird at this time- they are just as confused about you as you are of them! They also think things like "Should I say that...?" or "Does she like me?" So he might be a little shy, or the other alternative (and I know you don't want to hear this) but he could have lost interest or didn't like you the way you like him. Again- that's his loss. I hope it works out for you! And I would hold off on the present until you knew for sure how he thought about you. (Because if he didn't like you like that- it might scare him away!)
2006-12-12 09:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by meganluvbug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy defenetly doesn't knows what he want. You can give him a stocking of candy for Christmas with a letter why he's so strange suddenly. Tell him that you just want to know what's going on. Good luck!
2006-12-12 17:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by free_to_speak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No stocking. You'll look too eager, and that's a turn-off.
Let him come to you. If he does, see what happens. If he doesn't, he's not into you.
Mostly: be yourself. The guy that's going to like you is going to like you for being you, not for trying to be somebody that other people think you should be...how confusing! No more drama. Just be who you are. Good luck--
2006-12-12 17:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a right charmer! I'd just leave him to it and if anything, save you further embarrassment! It was a really nasty thing for him to do and either he's playing VERY hard-to-get or he's got some problems! Either way... you seem a bit too nice to be with him anyway!
2006-12-12 17:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sami 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask him wats the mattr and tell him how U feel and see if he feels the same way bout u but like u said maybe he did take it the rong way or somethin who no's u have 2 ask him and find out urself..
2006-12-12 17:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mannie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you talk so much just to ask a few dummy questions may be he doesn't like you any more you must talk on your sleep, leave this dude alone he is not in to you/
2006-12-12 17:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he probley likes you as a friend you should give him the gift it is a time for giving not receiving just take it slow at first if it was meant to be he will come back to you
2006-12-12 17:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by butterfly_girl200010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was being friendly, not flirtatious.
2006-12-12 17:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋