mean, I am getting sick of trying to find the right girl. I can't see the right girl anywhere. I am decent looking and I have a great personality, so I don't know why I can't find the right girl.
2006-12-12 08:58:44 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awww. thats sad. id be your girlfriend good looks and personality? woah thats hard to find. good luck finding the right girl. and yes of course you'll get a gf.
2006-12-12 09:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by kay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not meant to be mean but do others think you have a good personality and are decent looking. If that is true and you do and are then just keep trying. We can sometimes fool ourselves so ask and if those things are not true then work on them and set the bar lower. Maybe you need to work the girls in the 4 to 5 range instead of the 8 to 9 range.
2006-12-12 09:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by Brian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that at the age of 23, and then I met my late wife at heart over the internet, and then in real life.
IF you are an internet junkie, there are places on the internet to look. If you are still in school, you have a long way to go and lots to learn.
Also, a lot of people put unrealistic expectations on their Mr or Miss Right (my brother is in this category, must have a body like a pornstar, must be tall and must be so intelligent and blonde and .....). Trust me, that really is the wrong way to go about it. How big their boobs/brains/bum/tall they are is irrelevant, it is more about how you feel about them and how they feel about you. If you are simply looking for shallow sex, then sure, those may be important to you, but you love the person, not the husk they are in.
If you are not are not an internet junkie and not at school, you need to review where you are looking for women. From my experience the bar/night club scene is very shallow and not a place to find Ms Right (nor Mr Right). Develop a hobby that women dig (Yoga, dance, drama, craft are simply examples) and join a club for these.
Be genuine, open honest, empathetic and try to understand the next potential candidate. Ignore the bucked teeth, braces, goofy laugh or the glasses or snorts. Love is about the inside, not the outside.
hope that helps.
2006-12-12 09:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by bumbass2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the right girl? List the things that mrs right would be interested in Ok. Then go out and get involved in going to the places where mrs right hangs out, maybe the gym, church or some other regular club. I dont know its your mrs right. Anyhow if you go where she is she will see your into what she is into and youll get the chance to see her everytime she goes to this place and this is how to find, get to build up a friendship and then relationship with that gal. Oh and look sharp, always look sharp. Im too smart. Oh but most importantly you should really focus on something you love doing because then everything comes to you.
2006-12-12 09:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by james l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmmmm..............
What is your definition of the right girl?
Are you dating and the girls you date just don't click?
Are you just looking and not dating?
If in high school why are you worried about finding the right girl.
This is the time to date as many as you can.
Regardless of your situation finding the right girl is never something you just set out to do. You can just say "okay I am going out today and when I find the right girl I will know it and we will get together". Does not work that way.
Keep dating.....date as many girls as you can. The right girl will come alone when you least expect it. But the hunt for her can be a lot of fun.
2006-12-12 09:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it takes a while to find the right person for you. It's not like she's gonna just show up at your door step! Remember that these things take time; and try not to rush into anything! If you're young, there's no need to be in a hurry. When you find her, you'll know. Until then, enjoy what you already have.
-Lotte
2006-12-12 09:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. You're trying too hard. You're "looking" for someone. I don't know how old you are, but if you're in high school, then a word of advice - stop looking and just be happy in everything you do and enjoy yourself. I guarantee that confidence and happiness will draw women to you (I've seen it happen). And if you're older, say, 20s or 30s, man, just grow up. You ought to know this stuff by now.
2006-12-12 09:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by wineboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of people have the feeling that they cant find the right person. my best advice to u is just to not get distraught. u should stop trying so hard to find the right one and just relax. the right person will come along when u least suspect it. and then u will be happier than u realized u could be. it will happen, i kno it is frustrating but dont lose heart. she will come.
2006-12-12 09:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by jb486 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sometimes finding the right girl is tough. I hate to say this, but sometimes if you don't want to grow old alone, you just have to find any girl. Sometimes settling isn't the worst thing you can do.
2006-12-12 09:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by cannonball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you will don't worry I am like you its like where is my guy. You know you could have probably already meet the right girls just don't know it yet. I feel that I have but I am to bashful to tell him I am crushing for him hard. Well good luck hope I helped you!
2006-12-12 09:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋