First of all, I'm not saying anything bad about anyone on here that is wealthy. I met one guy a month ago who realy liked me. He had a lot of money but acted all into himself and stuck up. I've just met this other guy that really likes me, he's not a bum, but he doesn't really live anywhere, he stays at friends houses, has an average job. He's the swetest guy I've ever met. I'm young and not experienced with much, I was just wondering why if both the guys like me, how can they be so different like that?
2006-12-12 08:49:03 · 9 answers · asked by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Different upbringing, personalities etc. Hell i'd see which one i would be most interested in and go from there. Red flag on the one dude living with friends tho...does he help pay any bills or rent?
2006-12-12 08:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wealth or lack there of doesn’t in and of itself dictate the character of a man. Environment, and how they were taught to treat others, has more to do with why one person might be kind, and another aloof. If you see a preponderance of people, from the upper crust of society, act snobbishly, it is because many of them attained their wealth through means that were provided for them on a silver platter. In other words they did not have to work for it. Because they have no knowledge of how hard it is to come by wealth, the automatically assume that people who have not attained their economic status are in someway inherently inferior, and therefore they act to these people in a condescending and stuck up manner. Those who came to their wealth by working for it, as opposed to inheriting a position in life, are generally more amicable to all people regardless of the financial position those people are in.
Ultimately, you should disregard whether a man is wealthy or not and just choose a man who treats you right, and genuinely cares about you. The only reason a woman would choose a wealthy man who mistreats her over a poorer man who treats her like a queen, is if she is a gold digger. I am assuming you wouldn’t want to be labeled that.
2006-12-13 11:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by Lawrence Louis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference that money doesn't really factor into. There is a personality issue that tends to show off the need for acceptance from the rich guy. The "average" guy will tend to be content with what he has (not that he'll stop aspiring, but it's not as important to have the Mercedes as it is to have a strong relationship)
2006-12-12 08:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, The rich guy does not have to be all sweat and nice all the time. He has more to offer and you will have to meet him halfway or he will just move on. The poor guy has to be sweet and nice all the time because he has nothing else to offer you. From the sound of it this guy lives off others so having a good personality is a must.
2006-12-12 08:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, people are all different in some way. Regardless of backgrounds and lifestyles. If I were you, I'd go with the less-wealthy guy. Money is nice to have around, but love is better.
2006-12-12 08:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by ☆Tąrą☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. But from what you say, it sounds like the poor one is much more tolerable. If you think the poor one is going somewhere in life (eg, he's not really going to turn into a bum), then I think you'd be better off with the poor one. Good luck!
2006-12-12 08:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are never happy...Some people think they can always do better... There are also people who just settle for what they can get....Seems the guy with a little money has a big head and thinks he is better then other people and expects the best...The other guy is happy either way.... I have fortune myself but I dont look down on anybody and dont have a big head about it...
2006-12-12 08:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by 800 bound 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life experiences skew perspectives. This rich guy could have been rich his whole life and through his parents being a certain way, molded him in to the person he is. Where as you poor guy learned other things and it all chenges how you view the world and ultimately how you treat other people.
2006-12-12 08:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are "visually cued" as far as attraction goes. they like the way you look.
sounds like the less "wealthy" guy is a lot richer in important things.
2006-12-12 08:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋