I have been in the army for 3 years and I have a 2 year old son who I have only been able to see a few times a year. I am finally getting out of the army and will start seeing my son on a regular basis..... Where do I start because It is like I am all of a sudden jumping into his life.
2006-12-12 08:44:52 · 7 answers · asked by gnb503 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
do things as a family, you him and mom, just so that he gets used to you being their.
then after a while do things on your own, zoo etc, bedtime storys.
over time it adds up. and you will be fine you just have to get in their and do it!
2006-12-12 10:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being more of a full time Father isn't complicated. Do things as a family first allowing your son to feel safe around you. Time will allow you two to do things as a Father and Son. Be patient and understanding. Always show your son the wonderful feeling of having his Dad back in his life. Kids bond easily so don't be afraid, just jump in and enjoy family and fatherhood.
2006-12-12 08:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the navy for 20 years and constantly on westpac so I understand. Take it slow let him get used to you. First you will find that he will always go to mommy but as time goes on he will start coming to you also the best thing is to let him do it on his terms in this situation. Good Luck
Darrel.
2006-12-12 08:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by bigdandsoni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should be commended that you are already thinking about this and wanna be a good dad to your son. Just take it each day, remember that when he grows up he won't really remember the first two years when he hasn't seen you much. just be yourself, try and relax and enjoy your time, most kids wanna just hang out with their parents, they don't really care about presents, toys etc, your time is the most important. don't focus on what you have missed, think about all the wonderful times ahead. good luck :)
2006-12-12 08:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by uenuku 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One piece of advice:
Don't be the enforcer right away. That's not to say that you can't give discipline when necessary. But move slowly, and with the acknowledgment of his mother nearby. If you say it's wrong - he thinks your a 'bad guy'. If you say it's wrong with mom's agreement - it give your words credibility, and he will respect them more and more.
You have a wonderful opportunity - and a tremendous responsibility.
P.S. - Thank you for serving our country.
2006-12-12 10:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by ump2please 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take him places like the zoo.
2006-12-12 08:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With lots of love and attention - that's were you start.
2006-12-12 08:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by No one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋