my girlfriend is a virgin and if we had sex, how many hours/days/or hopefully not weeks, would it take for us to have sex again and for it to not hurt or bleed
2006-12-12 08:33:58 · 37 answers · asked by Leo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its sore the first time..just be very slow and gentle..make sure you use plenty of lube..I had sex the next day after but its different for everyone..just make sure you make it special for her and relaxing..if she's relaxed her muscles will be too!..I think after the 7th time I started to enjoy!..Good luck and make sure u use protection!
2006-12-12 08:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by anniemariee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It shouldn't hurt, or at least not much, and it should only bleed for a moment during the initial sex. So I would say an hour or two, but every girl is different and it may take a day or two....not weeks tough.
2006-12-12 08:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That all depends on you. You don't just stick it in and break her hyman so you can be a man. You have to be slow about it. Foreplay is crucial. If you didn't take those extra steps to make sure she was at the right level of arousal for you to make the plunge as smooth and easy as possible then it may take a week or a little more to heal. However if it does, you have no one to blame but yourself!
2006-12-12 08:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Master Kain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i replaced into scared and demanding for my first time. And enable me inform you, don't get your hopes up too severe. it incredibly is an incredibly particular 2d yet a super type of the time it is going to likely be very clumsy and you will no longer comprehend what to do, whether you examine up on it (it incredibly is that if the two one among you're virgins, which my boyfriend and that i've got been). It did no longer harm that undesirable, purely a speedy pinch. you're ideal in asserting that it incredibly is distinctive for each woman, because of the fact maximum of them have a distinctive discomfort tolerance. i do no longer think of i'm waiting to have intercourse back for an prolonged time. I each so often sense like it replaced right into a mistake and ought to have waited. the 2d time would harm, yet no longer as plenty because of the fact the 1st time. It relies upon on how quickly he is going and if he's making an attempt to thrill you rather than in simple terms getting the deed achieved. you will harm some days after the 1st time, yet after a pair situations of intercourse i'm particular you have relaxing and be discomfort-loose.
2016-10-05 05:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by shimp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 days
2006-12-12 08:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by Very Nice Indeed! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!
Pre-marital sex, NON marital sex is foolish when you are so young.
Wait until you are grown up, graduated from school and MARRIED before you go worrying about sex!
You are being a very foolish young man. Sex is for married people not kids!
Many young women REGRET loosing their virginity as a teen.
Many guys don't really love their girlfriends, they just have overbearing LUST and the girls fall for their stupid lines.
2006-12-12 08:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by WhatAmI? 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Nice and slow, you can do as often as you can. Once you have entered it is open and you can fit more easily the second time. You may want to use some lubrication available at the drug store or use a lubricated condom. The lubrication can applied with yours or her finger. Use your fingers to open the area this will help aid in penetration.
2006-12-12 08:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by Ask the Chef 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should only be a matter of minutes. The bleeding is usually pretty insignificant, and the pain, I never had the pain, so I can't answer that. Be gentle, sweet and loving. Make sure its something that you are both ready for. Make it a memory that you will both cherish.
2006-12-12 08:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by MommaSchmitt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends every girl is different . For some it doesn't hurt at all and you guys can just go at it . for others a couple days to heal but the first couple of times it's still going to be sore for her.. good luck with that . Be very gentle and make it a happy memory for her ...
2006-12-12 08:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by Melanie F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the first time should hurt but after a rhythm is established it should become pleasurable. the times after that should definitely be more comfortable. she shouldn't be bleeding nearly as heavily as the first time if she is seek medical attention.
2006-12-12 08:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋