Okay, I have a wonderful boyfriend who loves me very very much. He puts me to sleep every night by rubbing my back or stroking my hair. He bakes my favorite things. He fills my gas tank without me even asking. He's intelligent. We share A LOT of similar interests. He's terrific. We even have great sex. I just feel something is missing. I don't have a passion for him, a yearning for him and we've only been together for 3 months. It was never there. Am I crazy to think about leaving? BTW- I am 30 years old.
2006-12-12 08:32:54 · 6 answers · asked by Genevieve 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The grass definitely is not greener. I'm 43, and I've had a couple of relationships end because I thought the grass was greener. That was the biggest mistake I could have made. I also felt like there was somthing missing, when, in fact, there was nothing missing at all, except maybe my best effort. i endee these rlationships because I thought the grass was greener. But the greener grass turned out to be artificial turf.
2006-12-12 08:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUM? WOW I wish I had that as my problem.....LOL.OK seriously now, I am trying to figure out why you don't have a passion for him and the only thing I could come up with since he seems to be so awesome in all other ways is that maybe your not into his appearance??? Hum I wonder? Or just maybe he is boring and you two need to go out more to find more excitement other than sex in your relationship. I wish I could tell you more but you need to try hard to find out why there is no passion for you. What ever it is that's missing deep down you should know. I hope you can figure it out soon. Oh and NO the grass isn't always greener and to think that it is not reality.
2006-12-12 16:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not crazy. It sounds like you have it made except for the lack of yearning. I have been with my wife for 6 years and I still hot and bothered by her :) Comfort and respect are great but you still need passion in a lover/spouse. Otherwise you should be great friends
Good luck
2006-12-12 16:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by Brook W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what i think it missing is an incredible friendship between you two. he does so many nice things for you. that is apparent. but i think if he's not your best friend. if you don't crack up and feel completely comfortable together then it isn't the best possible relationship for you.
you are not crazy. if it's missing then it's missing. good luck. but be gentle. he sounds great so let him down easy when you do it and be honest with him.
2006-12-12 16:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by jay-z8900 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doind surprising things for him and stuff that will make him happy maybe you 'll get hte spark you are looking for
2006-12-12 16:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a great guy.... but if he is not the one, he is not the one! listen to your heart. do what YOU feel is right.
2006-12-12 16:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋