2006-12-12 08:29:54 · 23 answers · asked by Lyle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am in dat situation rite now..and wen i get old enough im up an out of der!
2006-12-12 08:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your family will always love you. If you have dissappointed or hurt them think deeply if this was something you could have avoided or if this came from something that you had to do to make your life better. for ex did you steal money from mother or admit you are gay? Any way if you decide it is your fault and you hurt them for no reason then APOLOGIZE!!! Sincerely and repeatedly to everyone and let them know you mean it and will not repeat the offense if you can help it. If it was necessary say sorry for the hurt but not the choice and remind them that nobody is perfect "That's why we have family.So someone would have to be stuck with our imperfect asses." About moving if you can you should for yourself it will give you a chance to grow up.
2006-12-12 08:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by peoplearea**holes 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, I believe you are confused about love.I think you have a few personal conflicts that need sorting out first. Love has no boundries and definatly has no guidlines. How ever I will relate this story. There was a family of sheep that lived on a large range. This was a large family that just happened to have a member that was a little different. One of them for reasons beyond any sence, just could not get along. It was diruptive to the rest of the sheep and therefore the family of sheep decided that this sheep ( the so-called Black one ) should be baned from the flock until further notice. It was very sad. The little fella felt that no one must love him anymore and that he was no longer part of the family. He spent his time wallowing in his own maneure and make belief world in the corner of the back 40 by himself. No one come to vist and no one seemed to care. The poor little guy. This went on for a couple of weeks and would'nt you just know it, a wolf had noticed this going on and thought , geees what an easy meal this is going to be. Well a couple days latter the wolf got hungry and a little lasy and figured he was going to cash in on his find, He started stalking the little guy but, out of the corner of his eye the sheep spotted him and began baaah..baaahing out of fear. The poor little sheep thought to himself this is it, I'm a gonner. No body loves me, no body cares and no body wants me any ways. No body. He was just going to lay down and let the hungry ol wolf have his way with him. Well lo and behold if the family did'nt hear the little fella baahing and come to check it out. They spotted the wolf and the whole flock took after the wolf, schooing it away. The little sheep was astouned, For days he was by himself and it seemed that no body cared, and now, WOW, every one was there for him. You see, he was still loved and more than that, the rest of the family still cared. Even if he was the black sheep he was still family and no body messes with family even if they are not in line at the time. Get your poop in a group and do whatever it takes to correct your thinking and your way of doing things. You are the only one who sees this black cloud over you, so let it pour its acid rain down, suck it up, clear it up and let it be on its way..
2006-12-12 09:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by SeaJayDboss 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Family doesn't stop loving very often. Did you do something terrible? If not, then it's in your mind. They still love you, they've just made rules you don't like and don't understand yet. But you should move out if you are over 18, anyway. If you are under 18, you should stay and live to fight another day.
2006-12-12 08:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think that they don't love you anymore? Its hard sometimes to maintain a good relationship with family, but they are family. Maybe you could try talking to them and telling them that you feel unloved and unwanted. Maybe they don't even realize that they are making you feel this way. Talk to them, I am sure they love you. They are probably like the rest of us and just wrapped up in the time of the year and all the things going on in their lives. Its selfish, I know, and we are all guilty of it. Its got to be a terrible feeling to feel these things. I hope you talk with them, and ask them to understand where you are coming from and why you feel the way you do. I hope it all works out for you.
2006-12-12 08:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by MommaSchmitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a sad question Hun ? have you talked to your family you might think they don't care but they really do love you, people are always trying to sort out there own lives and sometimes it feels like they don't care just take the time to find out before you make any decisions,its always nice to have your own place but you wont be happy if its for the wrong reasons why you moved in the first place good luck and I'm sure you will be OK
2006-12-12 08:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by upyafartpipe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are sure they don't love you anymore (which i doubt) before you move out be sure to talk over the issue with someone you can trust and confide in. make sure you have a place to go and some money to take with you. don't just leave prepare to leave and when you do make your exit try to leave on good terms. if you take bitterness and hurt with you, you're not going to be happy anywhere else. so try to close that chapter of your life as peaceably as you can.
2006-12-12 08:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out start your life. i really don't think your family can ever stop loving you but you have your reasons in why you are saying that but think about what you really want and think about how bad you will make your family feel if you do move out.
2006-12-12 08:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by clair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is difficult answer to give you
but we keep in home some boys and girls parents drop to the street, even we have to get a attorney because one mom decide to send her daughter to jail, instead to leave with us.
we have 3 children 1 girl and 2 boys, and believe us for no reason in all we made our children go out, even one of my boys he is always in the bad mood, even if we go to vacation, fair, or even Disneyland, he is in the bad mood, even he write in his English class some poem about he felt we never listen and don't love him, and is the contraries.
So think before you do something and if you still have that problem go to the school chancellors knows about places for teen can be until they are 18
HAVE A HAPPY HOLIDAYS
2006-12-12 08:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by mariagarzasea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out! But just know I had that same problem and its not that your family doesn't loving you anymore they just want you to be self sufficient! they are your family and will always be blood! Goodluck! ♥
2006-12-12 08:33:24 · answer #10 · answered by JESSICAluvzMIKE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of impossible for your family meembers not to love you anymore. You need to talk things out because if your family doesn't have your back then no one will.
2006-12-12 08:31:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋