I think you already are starting to. Time that you have been hanging togther, sharing life tells something already. Just like anything , time will tell if it stays strong and gets even stronger. Just keep on being that sweet honest guy you have been thus far. If she really cares for you, she will always come back to you. When the other boys fade away, i have a feeling your be the one holding her heart. ;)
Good luck with love.........
2006-12-12 08:34:53
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answered by Summerfest 2
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I have been in a very similar situation, got involved with a Doctor from Up State New York, while I am a Canadian.
Our long distance love flourished for two years. I now live in the United States and we are going to get married next year.
So five month apart is really no big deal.
As far as her other issues regarding trust and/or bad experience with previous relationship, this is something that you both will have to work on together. Let her know that your intentions are Honourable, you are not that guy and she must start getting over her past, isn't it a shame to let a former moron ruin your future with a good man? I mean, its' just plain ridiculous. You love this girl so be assertive and confident, My fiance and I used to call each other every night when we were in different countries. no matter how late, just to say goodnight.
also, get a computer and a web-cam. She can clearly see that you are not with anyone else and you get to see each other everyday even when u are apart.
Have faith and good luck,
Irene
2006-12-12 09:50:15
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answered by artist-oranit.com. 5
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tell her what you just told us... that you really care about her, and want to give your relationship a real shot. Explain to her how you feel, as well as your stance on cheating and cheates in general. You say you've known her for 4 years, so she should have a good idea of what kind of person you are, and whether or not you're trust-worthy. Even those of us who have been betrayed, though more suspicious, still want to find love.. hopefully she's not too scared of being hurt to give the long distance a try. All things considered, 5 months isn't that long, and 5 hours isn't really THAT bad (my boyfriend and I are seperated by an ocean, and there's still a year and a half before I'm able to move back home to be with him.. but we love each other, and want to be together, and are willing to do whatever it takes to make that happen). Good luck.. I hope it works out for you!
2006-12-12 08:36:13
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answered by Skyler789 2
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I've been there. It took about 4 years for me to get over my last relationship. I don't know how long it's been for her, but you have to wait until she's ready. If she isn't over her heartache from the guy that hurt her, and is still leary of commitment; it could hurt your relationship. The most important thing I learned that last time I got hurt was to never take the old boyfriend into the new relationship. There isn't room for three, and you aren't him. If you have been friends for 4 years, you are proving yourself to her. She should know by now what kind of guy you are. My best advice would be to show her this question. It's filled with honesty and sincerity, and any girl loves to see things in writing. I think you stated your feelings beautifully in this question, and I wish you the best of luck!
2006-12-12 08:40:29
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answered by tiny_tim 6
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There really is no way you can tell her only time will prove whether you are faithful or not. She will have to take a chance on that with you. You sound like a good guy since you both are young, if I was her I would take a chance after all its only 5 months. Good luck.
2006-12-12 08:33:31
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answered by kitcat 6
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The best thing you can do is talk to her and tell her how you feel about her. Tell her that it is only a short seperation and there are tons of ways you can communicate to each other in that time. Ask her to help you look for a place, if you are looking. And make a special space for her in your new place. This will help her see that you intend to continue the relationship. I hope this helps.
2006-12-12 08:43:13
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answered by blakkrose1974 2
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Tell her what you've just told us....that you've never cheated on a girl in your life, that you plan to be faithful to her during your time apart and hope she can commit to the same and that she's everything you could want in a girl. In time, she will learn to trust you and your relationship will get stronger. Perservere!
2006-12-12 08:36:34
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answered by Anonymous
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You just need to tell her the same way you posted it on here she should be able to believe you. You might want to take her out to a nice dinner and tell her there. Just do things to show her how you feel about her and everything should work out. Good luck!!!
2006-12-12 08:34:21
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answered by lilli 2
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I think that if you really want her to know how you feel, then you should just show her... Let her know by the way you do things. They always say that actions speaks louder than words.. so prove to her by your actions how much you care for her and she'll believe you afterwards.
2006-12-12 08:35:33
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answered by Foxxy 4
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You shouldn't have to prove anything to her. Just ask her out. If she likes you and has any sense, she will agree to go out with you. If she says she likes you but doesn't want to go out with you, you can try pressing her for the truth if you like. Just say "gee, you must not like me much if you aren't willing to take a chance on me" or something like that. If she doesn't like you, there's a good chance she will be peeved . . . but it doesn't matter then, does it? Good luck!
2006-12-12 08:40:06
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answered by anonymous 7
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