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Why do some guys find it so difficult to be honest and just tell his gf that he no longer wants her? Don't you think it hurts her more to be held in limbo while you keep telling her everything is alright and you miss and love her? How can you look her right in the eyes knowing you are lieing to her and how much she truly has loved you and been devoted to only you? How do you live with yourself knowing she knows in her heart something isn't right, but you make her feel like she is just being silly? Would you guys please give me an honest answer to these quiestions? Thanks for your time.

2006-12-12 08:29:37 · 9 answers · asked by softlyinspired 5 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

My Dear Friend
,,first of all ,,im so sorry for what happened to you.
second,,be strong,,trust God,,trust your self alot,, dont lose your confidence,,you still a girl,,and sweet girl,, always keep this idea inside of your self ,,you still have admirers,,alottttttttt of them
the third and the more important: Dont get your self in another relationship so fast just to heal you heart,,if you do,,you will hurt another person ,,and may be you get hurt too,,so please be patiante and get all fun you can ,,and make new friends,, but dont fall in love just a shallow to heal,, fall in love if you really feel it inside of your self,, and if you feel that new man makes you forget everything,,your past,,your ex,,even he makes you forget your self when you are with him,,and just remembering the love between you and him,,be careful please.
my Dear,,,Men are like apples on trees, the best ones are at the top of the tree. Girls don't want to reach for the good ones.. because they're afraid of falling and getting hurt, instead, they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground .. that aren't as good , but easy, so ..
the apples at the top think that there is some thing wrong with them , when in the reality , they are amazing .. that's is why they just have to be a little patient and the right girl the one who hakes a chance to find the good , right apple , will come someday or may have come already

Dear Friend,,,,i would like to have a friendship with you,,thats if you dont mind sure,,and dont forget,,just friendship with every one for now,,,, if so,,please feel free to contact me on:
carry_me5455@yahoo.com
waiting to hear from you very very soon,,take good care of your self,,,please,,,bye for now,,,

2006-12-12 09:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by carry_me5455 2 · 1 0

I believe that in many cases, men get caught up in not being able to admit to themselves that their love for their partner has faded. Many of us feel as though if we are unable to maintain a relationship that we have failed in being the protector and solver of problems. The lie is not only to a man's girlfriend, but also to himself. Its easy to live with yourself if you don't admit you've done anything wrong.

In addition, there is the notion that he has fallen into a comfortable routine in this relationship and feels unwilling to change it in hopes that things may change for the better, However i believe that in most cases things do not tend to get better once the love has first gone out of the picture.

The bottom line is that no matter what either person is feeling in a committed relationship they owe it to the other person to approach and resolve the problem, whether that resolution is staying together and working things out, or deciding to call it all off. I think it is better to know where you stand because there is far too much mystery in love, and guessing only complicates things.

2006-12-12 08:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Hill 2 · 1 0

Well I would go with your gut instinct. If you feel like he no longer wants you then...then you are probably right. I would give him some space. In the meantime try to be devoted to yourself. And try to just find you again. It's funny how girls/women put all their time and effort towards a guy. Do what will make you happy in the long run.

2006-12-12 08:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 1 0

Sometimes a guy will do this because he isn't ready to let you go, whether it's working out or not. The good news is that you can take the power in this situation. If you know that things aren't right and he's just messing with your head, then you can choose to leave HIM alone.

2006-12-12 08:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by clifsdi 2 · 1 0

Because they feel guilty about hurting the girl. It's a shame. Don't think it's a guy thing though -- the same kind of thing happens to guys too. Have a nice day!

2006-12-12 08:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1 0

maybe he doesnt have the balls to say what he really means. Or, is waiting for something better to come along and doesnt want to be alone in the meantime.

2006-12-12 08:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

its hard. Either way get our hearts broken. We chics take everything to the heart. It suxs. but just talk to the girl and ask if she understands you.

2006-12-12 08:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by munchy_101 2 · 1 0

guy's are wusses when it comes to girls and yes we think its better to not upset them like that... it is wrong though but that's why we love girls cause we fall for them head over heals... we fall in love with everything about them, including there emotions

2006-12-12 08:32:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I REALLY THINK HE IS JUST WAITING FOR SOMETHING ELSE TO COME ALONG.IF YOU REALLY REEL THIS WAY THEN DONT GIVE IT UP TO HIM,OR BETTER DUMP HIM.IT IS JUST GOING TO KILL YOU IN THE LONG RUN,LEAVE HIM B4 HE LEAVES YOU IT WILL HURT ALOT LESS....GOOD LUCK

2006-12-12 08:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by dce1dg 3 · 1 0

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