I want to tell a guy in my life that I love him. Its a complicated situation because we are friends and in the beginning we both said we weren't looking to get attached. A few weeks ago, he told me he loved me under the influence of alcohol. Well at least when he called he said he was but it didn't sound like it to me. What do I do?
2006-12-12 08:25:59 · 5 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are you waiting for? :) Do it, you have nothing to lose.
2006-12-12 08:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by Little Light 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for honey go for it. He has made the first move. You said that you don't think he was drunk when he said it but if he was then you do know that alchocol is a truth serium and he is telling you the truth. If you love this man and don't want him to get away ask him over and you both talk like you are still friends. While some music is playing just kiss him and tell him that you love him. He can't turn you down and he can't refuse to say it back given the way he feels. This is how my girlfriend told me and we've been together for 6 months now. And we were just like you best friends. So go for it and I hope it all works out for you sweetie. Good Luck and don't let time pass you by.
2006-12-12 16:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK....Though u 2 weren't exactly lukin for an attachment u can't help how u feel about him. Ur heart decides who it likes and there is nothin u can do about it. Now frm past experiences its been sed that sum1 usualli expresses how they feel while under the influence...this is probli because they dont realli think b4 they speak and just pour out their heart and soul...Maybe u shud ask him about it and see where the converstaion leads to frm there b4 u decide 2 let him know exactly how ur feelin.
2006-12-12 16:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by Care_Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him..becuase he probally waz serious but didnt wanna get rejected badly
2006-12-12 16:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confront him, ask him if he really meant it. I hope you don't get your heart broken if he says no. If he does you deserve better
2006-12-12 16:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by munchy_101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋