i feel like an dumb as s for missing him. anyone else feel the same way...
2006-12-12 08:22:54 · 21 answers · asked by belle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do because I don't think he misses me. And that makes me feel stupid because he's probably moved on and here I am thinking about him.
2006-12-12 08:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have missed an ex girlfriend but most of the time I knew that it had to be that way. I have never felt stupid for it though. The problem is American culture and this dating junk. America needs to start the idea of courtship back up instead and save a lot of broken hearts.
2006-12-12 08:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sandstorm222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is that everyone has got some special or unique personality and it is not just a person but could be any of his/her habits or good things you may miss. The memory is one of the special feature in human granted by God and is not just about a partner but everyone from day 1 coming into your life but you remember people when you get across instances when you had or wish to have that person with you.
If my partner left me with no reason or fault from me and was a good partner, I would never forget that person who was a part of good time in my life.
2006-12-12 08:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by PerfectMatch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES,YES, and YES. I have gotten out of a few bad relationships only to miss them a week or two later. Just remember you got out for a reason, so don't go running back over a few residual feelings. Don't feel stupid just stay strong.
2006-12-12 08:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's soooo natural to miss someone. relationships are hard and break ups are even worse. during what other time in your life do you have to completely stop talking to a friend and pretend like they died. if you just one day stopped talking to your best girlfriend you may find yourself one day a year or even more later missing her right? so why shouldn't you miss him. just don't idealize the relationship after it has ended. it ended for a reason even if that reason is really hard to remember sometimes.
i've been there and it will pass. hang on there.
2006-12-12 08:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by jay-z8900 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me. Then I felt stupid because I remembered how he chose to end things. I think out of all the things I miss it was our friendship from before.
2006-12-12 08:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do miss him and I feel really stupid for it too. The worst part is that we still talk and email each other which makes it harder to get over him
2006-12-12 08:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by triste_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have married the love of my life, my soul mate, but the other day i was told my ex was going to have a baby and since then i have had thought about him and kinda missed him.. i had a miscarriage when we was together and that is one reason it ended.. don't feel dumb, if you have loved some one you always will have them in a small part of you hart..
2006-12-12 08:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always miss them, even girlfriends from 25 years ago and even almost girlfriends from then.
No, I don't feel stupid about it. Sort of bittersweet memories. It just shows a depth of feeling and that you value romance and friendship. Sometimes its all you get and it can help sustain you then.
2006-12-12 08:25:57 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most people feel like this about the person they have been so used to being with, even if you split with them cos they have cheated or something....you still miss them for a while, i think its habit really!
2006-12-12 08:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋