and please dont give the usual answer like which one makes you feel better, i know all those, and they all make me feel good, i wanna know that 1 unique thing to look for to make you know that thats the one for you...
2006-12-12 08:19:20 · 17 answers · asked by simpleguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should make a pro and con list on da qalities u lyk and wut u would lyk in a girl..who every favors on da pro side den dats da gurl u should pik
2006-12-12 08:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other then Hugh Hefner it's a bit difficult to engage in a juggling act like the one you are involved in,
First of all the definition of IN LOVE has to be clear, absolutely clear in your mind heart and soul. If you feel truly and deeply for a girl you cannot even conceive of being with anyone else but her. Therefor I do not believe it's love, not the real thing for sure,
This is what I suggest you do.
Date each of them individually for a period of at least three months. Get to know them better. That's how you give each of them a fair chance and you get focused, stop being all over the place, young man, it only leads to trouble.
You also must ask yourself if you are truly ready to commit to one and only person right now. If the three ladies in question find out that they are not the only ones in your life,(Unless they know already and don't care), you might loose your chance to be with the one you really want.
Tread carefully, and good luck,
Irene
2006-12-12 08:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to pick the one that you can imagine yourself with for the rest of your life. The one you can wake up to in the morning, makes you feel on top of the world, the one that you can sit up an talk to for hours an when its all said an done she doesn't judge you for what you are/have been going through. When you look at her your heart an head start racing an you get your words mixed up. The one that you are the most comfortable with. Someone who you can play with an they won't get mad at you, the one that when life seperates you....you always know, she is still there, right where you left her waiting on you to make up your mind. Thats the girl you need, she will give you space, make you happy, love you , and be there for you emotionally and physically. The one who only cares about spending every day with you. You know she loves you when she takes forever to look her best for you, when she caresses your head while you lay on her lap, when she is not afraid to say 'I'm sorry', when her eyes light up everytime she sees you, when she calls you in the middle of the day just to say 'I love you', when she doesn't care about how much money you got in your wallet, when she's willing to change her plans for you, when she takes you home to meet her family, when she tells you much she cares about you and how lucky she is to have you every day. I hope this helps. LOVE Caylin
2006-12-12 08:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't say that you're in love with three simple guy :) I will give you a little friendly advice: First of all, you need to give us more detail on how the 3 girls feel for you. And second of all, go for the one that feels for you not the opposite. In case the Internet girl has a crush on you as well, meet her in real life.
Good luck to you :)
2006-12-12 08:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by Little Light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lmao I hate it when people do this. I don't think it is at all possible to be IN-love with more than one person at a time.. You can love them all sure. But The your the first person I think of when I wake,I see you holding my future child, it physically hurts me when you go away, i can't imagine my life without you in it love. Only happens one at a time.. Most people when they say they are in love with three people generally use the term to keep them all happy with stars in their eyes... Gosh this guy loves me it makes me so happy oh your going out with the boys tonight ( but really going to the other persons your "in love" with) Not a problem baby have a good time... That pisses me off.... I think the word Love is used way to frequently and without the heart that is supose to come with it ...... So good luck with that
2006-12-12 08:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the girl in real life and chose the good luking one
2006-12-12 08:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of them are the one for you because you wouldn't have to ask this question. ONE OF THEM would stand out like a sore thumb.
2006-12-12 08:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by cindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you hurt 3 girls?? b/c you want to be so selfish!! I think you should tell all of them what you are doing and then see who stays with you!! Best of luck!!
2006-12-12 08:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
which one is the last one you think about before you fall asleep and the first when you wake up?
2006-12-12 08:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by BuddhaDaddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which girl are you most attractive to mentally, physically, and emotionally?
2006-12-12 08:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by bluetiger856 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋