i think beauty is in the eye of the beholder...no question...i think you can be the most gorgeous looking person in the universe and if you look unhappy and slouchy and bored then you wont look beautiful...likewise you can be not so visually stunning and have a real radiance or confidence or a beautiful smile ...lovely hair and so on...obviously it goes without saying that personality rocks...so many people look at themselves and tear themselves to bits...im just wondering how many of you actually see how beautiful you are every day...what do you think???...;0)
2006-12-12 08:13:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
KR1981...i would gladly help with whatever it is you feel you need help with...but i dint know what your problem is...you dont have email allowed and have no questions posted so i cant contact you...hope you see this...feel free to mail me if you want...and i'll do my best to help...;0)
2006-12-13 21:04:37 · update #1
KD1981...i just read your answer again...sorry didnt see the 'guy' bit lol...im sure there would be a few that would love to help...but be careful...there are some odd bods on here too you know...;0)
2006-12-13 21:07:14 · update #2
Everything you have said are just like little tiny pearls of wisdom. I think when someone has an amazing presence about them it's more attractive than anything. I personally rip myself apart at every opportunity and no matter how many times I am told otherwise I can't believe it. I can always put on a front to give an air about myself If I feel like I need to. It's a defence mechanism. only people close see how insecure and vulnerable I can be. I try to look i the mirror and find one thing I like everyday. I say try, it doesn't usually work as for every positive I'll find ten negatives.
2006-12-12 08:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by itgirl23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your points are valid for guys. It's amazing how some film stars are regarded as 'gorgeous'. Then looking back women wonder why they thought they were attractive.
Unfortunately, I think it's different for girls. A good looking girl is regarded as good looking even looking back. Slim/toned figure is the key. Guys are less bothered about 'rocking personality'. A guys interest is generally much more focused around the 'main attraction'.
2006-12-12 08:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by interested_party 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know...I don't think I'm hot hot, but I get hit on quite a bit. I think it's because of my personality, but many guys say it's because I'm 'hot'. Who the heck knows. I'd really like the opinion of a guy that has never met me. That way it would be purely based on my looks. If you have a minute and can help me out, let me know.
2006-12-12 08:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by KR1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do, im gorgeous on the outside, and so nice and sweet and innocent on the inside, ive never changed the way i act or look, im very happy with what god gave me, and i see my beauty everyday by lookin into the eyes of my two gorgeous babies, and know that my life is complete i have beauty in and out, beauty from love of my babies, and love and beauty from my husband whom i love so much
2006-12-12 08:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by susu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are absolutely right in what you say, being physically perfect is useless if you have zero personality. I once saw a guy in a nightclub he was fabulous looking and we got chatting, I was floored by how boring he was and when he asked me out I refused - politely, my friends couldnt believe it.
2006-12-12 08:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by ffiondove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a good personality but physically i dont think im beautiful
2006-12-12 08:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i start each day by looking in the mirror and say to my self "good morning gogiouse or beautiful or sexxy" whatever mood i'm in that day, although I think people see me as not that good looking I think I'm HOT but thats because I think highly of myself.......
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2006-12-12 08:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by Stacy ` B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 12:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree confidence is the best thing about a person. it adds so much sexually to a person. i dont know my own beauty tho. dont get told it often u see :(
2006-12-12 08:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't descrobe someone as beautiful based on their looks, I think beauty is something someone radiates.
2006-12-12 08:17:55 · answer #10 · answered by Ally 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋