I'm an 18 year old virgin I've been thinking about sex alot lately... I've date 12 guys to date and I keep running from the ideaa for years now. I think I'm ready but now I'm single... What shud I do?
2006-12-12 08:12:34 · 16 answers · asked by Olivia-Joan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i haven't been a virgin for quite sometime now and I'm only 20. when i think back to my first experience i kind of regret it because it was with someone that was really stupid. so my suggestion is to wait until you are in a good relationship with someone that you don't have to question when it comes to their intentions, loyalty or whether or not you want them to have it. that's when you're truly ready it will be more fulfilling than doing it with some random man because you never forget you first.
2006-12-12 08:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant turn back time once youve done it.
doing it takes away much of the mystery suspence which is also tingly grand, like a first kiss.
Your going to live a lot more years
With the wrong person and at the wrong time it ruins relationships.
Beware of disease, and pregnancy. No prevention method is fool proof.
I was 21 wish I'd waited. Didn't get it right till the third try. Everything is great now at 34.
2006-12-12 16:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by G's Random Thoughts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart don't rush into sex! You should wait as long as you can. 18 years old really isn't that old to be talking about sex anyway. Take your time. It's not cute when you contract a disease or get pregnant by some looser. Slow down and enjoy your youth.
2006-12-12 16:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a really big move and you need to really feel strongly about the person before you make that committment. I waited until I was 18 as well. Sex changes everything! Choose wisely
2006-12-12 16:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sam s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being single will make it a little more tough.....
Giving up your virginity is something special and you can only do it once.... So if you are ready, then this is your decision.... Just make sure you use protection since it is tough to be 18 and pregnant....
2006-12-12 16:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really ready then you should only do it with the one you really love and not some guy that just wants you as a one night stand. It's speacial to some girls to wait for the right guy,so be careful.
2006-12-12 16:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you find the right guy. When the time comes for you to want to have sex, im sure you will know if hes the one you want to have it with. Don't just rush into it though.
2006-12-12 16:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by steffo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only have sex if you want, and with someone you want to do it with! It's best if it's someone you're seeing obviously, but if it feels right, and you want to do it, it'll just happen. Don't stress out about it too much!
2006-12-12 16:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by babaloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush into it, wait on the right guy, I was 20 and she was 19 and we had dated over 6 months before we went all the way, we fooled around allot and did many things before going all the way, so don't rush into it and take your time and fool around allot before going all the way!
2006-12-12 16:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the hurry. life goes on even without sex. find a guy who will respect u before you give to him your every thing
good luck
2006-12-12 16:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋