I am so confused for the last year and half i have been in a mediocre relationship. i was deeply in love with my boyfriend but many things about him bothered me. it was not the perfect relationship, but i wanted it to work. Recently i was getting fed up with him and i met someone new. this new guy is really great. So, i started pulling away from my boyfriend ever so slightly and now he is acting how i have always wanted him to. i am so confused. i feel bombarded with other peoples opinions and pressured to actually make a choice. any ideas? or have you been in this situation?
2006-12-12 08:09:02 · 9 answers · asked by jay-z8900 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the thing is if a guy does something to hurt you. chances are they are going to do the same thing again and again. it is very easy to do this kind of thing. knowing that the guy knows your in love with him. leave him cause if that guy really likes you he'll do whatever it takes to get you back. just a suggestion. cause in the end you and you alone is going to suffer for your action's so think it over! i hope that i helped.
2006-12-12 08:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by omeng_ski 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know that happens most of the time; when a person makes up their mind to move on the other one will do a 360 and become the perfect little angel. Yes people can actually change but only you will know if this person really has or if he is just trying to mess up something for you. Don't fall the sweet act. I am not sure how long you were in the relationship with the other person or what exactly happened, but if you weren't happy then why go back? Think about it really long and hard. In the end you have to live with whatever decision you make.....do what's best for you. You are what's important in this situation.
2006-12-12 16:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible for people to change....
How long have you and your boyfriend been daating?
Is all the worth throwing away for this new guy?
sometimes it just takes a little scare for change someone into being like how you like it....sence he has change to how you want him to act that shows that he really loves you alot and doesn't want to lose you...stay with you boyfriend and leave the new guy alone
2006-12-12 16:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by mustangplayer14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been in a situation like that but it sounds like you've made your mind up already,go with the new guy and leave your ex.Only you know what you want so follow you heart.
2006-12-12 16:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well people can change but you really need to know if your still in love with him. because you can loose something good that has just open a better life 4 you.
2006-12-12 16:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by Vargas L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people do not change. they'll keep telling u that they will, but it's just a cycle. ur much better off leaving and going with the new guy you found. good luck, hope everything works out!
2006-12-12 16:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by blondie_851851 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and go back to how you were before you pulled away. If he reverts back, then tell him you need some time apart. He'll realize for good how wonderful you are. ^_^
2006-12-12 16:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by MandieGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he only changed because he knows something is different. as soon as he is sure he has you back he's going to go back to the way he was.
2006-12-12 16:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by pikachu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, i have been. i went back to my babies' father 3 times, and trust me, they do not change. just follow your heart. no one can tell you what to do but you. just be careful.
2006-12-12 16:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by red.cherry2001 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋