i have an appt. on Weds.
my boyfriend and i are not sure if we should fine out whats the baby or just wait till March!
2006-12-12 08:05:28 · 22 answers · asked by Chrisalyn P 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
wait it out. trust me
2006-12-12 08:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason I ever wanted to find out the gender of my kids was for the purpose of buying the things I needed or your baby shower. Although they are not 100% right the ultrasound helps alot. I find out a few days before Christmas on this one and I am going to save it and let DH open it on Christmas Day! He really wants a boy. Congrats and Good Luck
2006-12-12 08:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion will be wait and let it be a surprise because for example what if the doc tell you it's a girl then you tell everbody the next thing you know when you have the baby it turn out to be a boy
2006-12-12 08:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by Tatyana W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I was pregnant with my son, I did want to know. It definitely took a lot of stress away because I could pick out a boys name ahead of time and buy all of the right color and style baby clothes, and get his room ready.
But in the end it's up to you guys. If you like surprises, go ahead and wait.
2006-12-12 08:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lucie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is an individual thing. For me I want to know. That way I have time to pick out a proper name (already have one though for both sexes, even a unisex name in case I'm undecided), plan the nursery, stock up on diapers (they have kinds htat are for just boy and ones for just girls), you plan my baby shower properly. Yes finding out the sex is one of the few marvels left in the world, but I am the type of person that I just have to know. I think you should too.
2006-12-12 08:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by Love United 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It needs to be your choice, not anyone else's. I am pregnant, and we are dying to know if it's a little boy or girl. My grandma, on the other hand, was upset because we are going to find out. She thought that wasn't fair, because she couldn't do when my mom was born.
Just remember, the doctor can be wrong. Good luck! I hope everything goes well, and you and your BF stay happy and in love forever!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-12 08:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really hope you're talking about determining the SEX of the baby and not whether or not it is a baby....
if it's your first, i would reccomend finding out. it's easier to shop for all of your baby essentials and will be easier in general. but there aren't many surprises left in life, so you might want to wait. i found out the sex on my first and let the second be a surprise. it was fun. good luck!!
2006-12-12 08:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by chingona1027 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure if you want to, opt for not knowing - then if you change your mind, you can do it later.
I have three and prefer to wait. But there good reasons for wanting to know.
You can also ask your dr. to jot down the baby's sex and you can find out any time later if you so choose.
I vote for waiting!!!! :)
Congratulations!!!
2006-12-12 08:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by LittleFreedom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend and i wanted to know what we were having because we wanted to but things and we want to know if we really had to work hard on finding a name we both wanted a boy s that we can name the baby after my bf but we found out that it was a girl and it took us a week ti pic a girll name....but the choice is up 2 u ...GOOD LUCK
2006-12-12 08:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by devoe442004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Definitely find out what it is! Then you can buy everything for that gender. You can prepare yourself better and start thinking about names! Just keep in mind that what they tell you is never 100%. Good Luck and Congratulations!
2006-12-12 08:08:49 · answer #10 · answered by tiece20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might be late now but i say wait, best wishes and merry christmas...
my bro is a pisces it might be a boy or a girl, just go with your gut i know ye will make the right choice for each of ye...
2006-12-12 08:08:57 · answer #11 · answered by Jon M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋