ok so me n my ex have started talkin again. we both love each other very much i kno he loves me. we were together for 2 yrs n we were each others first loves. but now we have been friends wit benefits for 6 months. how do i kno hes not using me for sex or anythuing else???
2006-12-12 07:46:56 · 13 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh that's bad..if he really loves you he wouldn't want you both in that situation..may he don't want to be committed and that's a bad sign.. try to talk to him, say what you feel and ask his feelings too..he should do something, i mean if he really loves you, he'll ask you if you want to continue your previous relationship with him.. here's also a tip, don't give in to him when he asks wants to have sex.. when he gives a negative response i think you should think twice.. believe me i'm a male
2006-12-12 07:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by autopilot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man and I've had the f with b program. I found that type of relationship satisfied me for a few months and then the girls got to possessive. I discussed what I wanted from the relationship right at the beginning. It was never going to be anything more. When those girls wanted to change it into anything more I was out the door. I hope your ex feels different than me, Good Luck.
2006-12-12 16:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lilbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your arrangement is silly at best and emotionally harmful at worst.
Why trap yourself with an ex, when after all he's an ex for a reason when you can actually enjoy your freedom and eventually find a good decent guy.
That you are even wondering if he's just using you for sex, which he clearly is, is cause enough for you to break off this arrangement and move on. Again. If it wasn't easy the first time, good luck thinking it'll be easier this second time around.
2006-12-12 15:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by simm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beware of the Booty Call. You know, the late night call where he wants to hang with you, after he's already been out with some other people. My guess is he's thinking, Why buy the cow when I can have the milk for free?
2006-12-12 15:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its simple. Does the relationship you have at this time similar or the same as it was before you broke up? If not, it is probably for the benefits only.
2006-12-12 15:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to talk to that guy..alot of guys want sex and thats it..i mean theres even a rule for some of them that say "hit it and quit it" personally i dont belive in that because im in a serious relationship but u never know what some guys will do for sex..
2006-12-12 15:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by L.A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he doesn't care about you for anything in the world exept for sex,u should have a conversation with him,and take it from there. Good Luck~!
2006-12-12 15:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Using you for sex
2006-12-12 15:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by nick n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah talk with him and also stop giving it to him and see how he reacts to it and maybe you could find out if he just wanted the sex or was it true love
2006-12-12 15:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a move for a real relationship again
2006-12-12 16:13:14 · answer #10 · answered by Trojan8408 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋