I was out side with my boyfriend and his brother one of my friends come and starts talking to the two guys my friends boyfriend past saw them and now he wants to fight my boyfriend well they faught and my boyfriend got jumpedand my boyfiends family hates me cause they think I sent them to jump him then I found out that my boyfriend sister wanted to fight me I was ready but she never came out later that day every one is saying to break up with him cause he is the one that made his sis want to fight me everyone started to yell at me so I just went up to him and broke up with him ,That happend on thursday eversence all I do is think about him to feel better I dont do anything but drink every day a bottel of brandy by myself every one thinks I am doing it for fun help im dieing here!!!!!!!
2006-12-12 07:40:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first go to a church they could help you wuth this problem.
2006-12-12 07:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My dear, your situation sounds like it is trying to overtake you. I think you should step back a minute take a deep breath (oh and stop the alcohol it just kills brain cells and never helps in the end) and relax. After doing that think about what you really want with a level head. Do you want your boyfriend back, or more importantly is it imperative to you that he at least knows the truth, that you did not start any fights. If these things sound appealing than you should consider calmly asking him if you might have a brief moment of his time. Tell him you know something that he needs to know and that way it sparks his interest in your conversation before he gets "turned off" by the whole "talk" thing. Then organize to have lunch with him or something, then simply and calmly tell him you've been doing some thought and above all you want him to understand that you were not the reason for this situation and despite what has happened to the two of you, you have no hard feelings toward him. If he wants to pick the relationship back up after that then great! If not then you are better of looking for someone with more bearings and values on life.
My dear, there are people out here who really do care about you. Don't sell yourself short. I do hope this helps! :o)
2006-12-12 15:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough day sounds like. Talking is the most important thing to do. Get him alone and let him know you had nothing to do with the fight. Don't fight his sister. talk to him and see what issues he has and get everything out there. As for your drinking, I'm 41 years old and used to drink my problems away as well. I still drink but found a good long walk or drive is so much better for thinking and relaxing. Give it a try
Good luck
2006-12-12 15:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by Brook W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child you got to much drama in your life. Drop everything you dont need a boyfriend if that happens. Try to find a new bf someone you have never liked before!!
2006-12-12 15:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this seems like way too much drama for something that didn't need to be this way. It's a little hard to understand what the problem is. I don't think you should be with someone that is thinking about having his sister beat you up.
2006-12-12 15:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Kristin D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe thats all one sentance.
Have you heard of Vicky Pollard on "Little Britain"?
Probably not maybe you should check it out.
Stop drinking silly girl drinking when you are depressed will make you more depressed. Judging by your use of language you are very young and should not be drinking spirits anyway.
2006-12-12 15:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by Bohdisatva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Study!!& be something your friends & family proud of!!& you'll be proud of your self!!brandy will not solve your problem!!pray to God!!to get over your troubles!!& concentrate on your studies!!
2006-12-12 15:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by donia f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you shouldnt have listen to every one else, but what's done is done. So if I was you I would just explain to him what really happen.
2006-12-12 15:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhhh the trials and tribulations on life in the trailer park part III,..... get off tha bottle and make something of urself
2006-12-12 15:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by chuckleburry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is get a boyfriend and make your old boyfriend jealous.
2006-12-12 15:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by Kayla I T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop the drink and talk to him. If it can't be worked out then move on.
2006-12-12 15:43:41 · answer #11 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋