but there's this other guy that like me alot what should i do
2006-12-12 07:36:01 · 24 answers · asked by ms.sexy2bee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with a good man who treats you right and loves you back, only you know who much you love a person...
2006-12-12 07:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by male or female 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello
Talk to the guy, and tell him politely that although you are flattered you currently are in a relationship and won't cheat on your boyfriend. (This is assuming this is the conclusion you agree with)
But only you can make a decision because you are the one in the relationship. If you are second guessing your relationship then let him go and be with the guy that you want to be with. This will not be easy but it has to be done, don't string any of the guys along because "what goes around comes around"
2006-12-12 15:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by dymps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
2006-12-12 15:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
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Just to let you know... "ConfusedK" didn't come up with all that himself...
He stole his entry from this website:
http://www.matchdoctor.com/blog_17344/If_A_MAN_WANTS_YOU.html
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So anyways, do you like this other guy? If you do, you really shouldn't do anything about it because you already have someone. I think you should take the time to think about your true feelings. And don't lead either of them on. This reminds me of an episode from the show "What I Like About You." Holly didn't tell her boyfriend Henry that she may have feelings for someone else. She even continued the relationship she had with him. He ended up finding out from someone else that she loved someone else. It ended pretty badly...
2006-12-12 15:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love the guy you are with there should be no question to who you want to be with. If you are happy stay with the guy you are with if not then you know what u need to do
2006-12-12 15:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should dump the nice guy so he can find a really nice girl who values herself enough to understand her body isn't just a piece of meat. That way he will be able to find someone who isn't so stupid. There is always going to be guys who like you, but if you continue to act like a "free meal", then that's how you will be treated. Thank you.
2006-12-12 15:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him you wouldn't be temped by the other one, if he is good to you stay with him. It may look better right now to be with him, but realize what you will be leaving behind as well.
2006-12-12 15:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by padros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that other guy should be out of the picture...you love your guy, and you should love ONLY your guy. don't worry about other guys when you're in a relationship.that guy needs to realize he either has to give you your space or forget about you...he should respect your decisions.
2006-12-12 15:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by Surfergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. All you should do is tell the second guy that your feelings for the first guy are stronger. When you do this, be sure to be as easy to the second guy as possible. Break it to him gently.
2006-12-12 15:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love this guy so much why are you worrying about the other guy liking you? that must mean that you current relationship is not that sercure.
2006-12-12 15:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋