how do you know if your guy is cheating?

Question

love, relationship, possibilty

Answer 1

If you have to ask this question then you probably already know the answer.

One thing to watch for is how he watches or checks up on you, as if you are cheating. Men will always give themselves away with that one.

Also remember, once a cheater always a cheater. Ask him if he has been in monogamous relationships. If he tells you that he cheated or his past gf cheated, then it could pop up as an issue in your relationship. Cheating is pattern behavior.

Also, men who constantly claim they are monogamous, generally are not. Monogamous people don't have to tout their fidelity, they just live it.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Honestly, what "hints" are in our face everytime they cheat?
They always keep it a secret....shh
And it totally sucks, because some of them are Really, and I mean R-E-A-L-L-Y smooooooth...if you know what I mean. Like they can be extra attentive on certain nights, (like after they spent a whole night with the other chik) and others can be totally obvious. Like if he returned all your phone calls, he probably doesn't anymore, or if he used to be caring, and sweet (in many ways...) he could care less if you eaten yet, or if you miss the flowers for "especial ocassions"....I dunno, men are very mysterious, and if you are willing to follow their Magic Hats everywhere they go....then you might catch a "glimpse" of their magic ways....lol....what is going wrong in your relationship?....cuz if he can't go out on a certain specia day of yours...maybe he is planning something for christmas, a birthday in his family, or studying for an exam...sometimes they are ashamed of certain things, and they don't want their 'gilrz' to know....*wink*

Answer 3

It depends on the guy and your relationship. Some guys are obvious, others are better at covering their tracks. The answers that have already been posted are pretty much on point...it does usually involve plans that you CAN'T be involved with, phone calls that he can't take in your presence, working late, etc. Trust your gut!

Answer 4

His attitude towards you changes. He doesn't seem interested anymore. He's careless. His eyes look different, they're not as bright and full of life like at the beginning of your relationship. He is irritable and gets annoyed pretty easily.... and the list goes on!

Answer 5

I know when my man cheats because us girls can tell the difference in are man if we went out with him for a long time.

Answer 6

he is spending less time with you, always gets calls while youre with him (maybe even leaves), pays less attention to you, you see him and this girl often (and they are not friends)

if you're on here asking this question, then he probably is.

if you think its a certain girl, ask her "are you friends with him or more?" she will probably say more if he is cheating-she doesnt have a reason to lie about it unless she knows he is with you and is desperate

Answer 7

You ask him, and if he says "no" and you don't believe him. You do your own detective work to find out the proof. Whatever is done in the darkness will come to light.

Answer 8

sh*t I check my guys voicemail on a regular..to stay on top of whats going on..he recevie a call from a girl..who was returning his call..right now I am trying to figure out why the hell he called her...and who she is to him...if you can check his voicemail..if he says that he will see you then he doesnt , or if he goes in private to make a call..

Answer 9

The fact that you are asking this question is a pretty good clue that you feel something is up... Try asking him and see what his reaction is...

Answer 10

If he sneaks out to make a phone call