without sounding like an egocentric my girly friends say am pretty, my guy friends think the same. Am also a nice person, so i have been told and apparently I have a great sense of humour and unique personality...so wot is it that am doing wrong?
2006-12-12 07:25:31 · 20 answers · asked by Ruby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the ref, am 21 years old and am not fat and short well maybe a tad bit short 5.3" and am a size 6/8, tanned skin, long, straight waist length black hair, hazel eyes and lots of lashes.
2006-12-12 08:05:42 · update #1
i know what you mean! but stop worrying about it! good things come to those who wait! x
2006-12-12 07:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worrying doesn't do you any good (both for yourself, and for what you are trying to achieve). If it did do good, I wouldn't tell you to stop...
For the long term, I'm pretty sure you are ready. You are nice, fun, pretty, and unique. But, to gain attention is a different thing...
1) If you are in Middle/High school, then you'd want to hang out with popular girls so your odds are higher. However, if the boy that you are seeking isn't very popular, then it doesn't really matter whether you are popular or not; you just have to make the first move if he isn't into girls or is not confident about it.
2) You'd want to be more flirtatious. This one works wonders, and can double or triple your success. Girls who don't flirt get almost nothing and have to wait. Read "Superflirt" by Tracey Cox if you want more info. She's pretty good.
3) Though you want to be fun, you can't lose control of yourself. You'd want to be Mrs. Classy, which makes you look appealing to almost everyone... You'd scare those boys who aren't confident though. So again, you'd have to make the first move if that's the case. Just learn from a lady who has manners and charm...
Just try these 3 things, and hopefully it'll help. I know that most people don't dare to try... But if you don't, how are you ever going to achieve anything? It's the same as training for a marathon. You are always changing... The word patience and persistance goes for things like this. So it's not just patiently waiting not knowing or hoping, but actually making something out of things yourself. Just make sure you never lose a sense of who you are (that means if you aren't comfortable doing these things, don't do it).
2006-12-12 15:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by DN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be Tourettes ? BO ? Your endless stare ? The bizarre sexual suggestions you make ? Your constant whistling ? Your wandering hand trouble ? Kleptomania reassurgance ? The T shirt that says F*** Off and die ?....
I'm sure none of the above is true. Actually, you sound pretty perfect to me. Go on, spoil it by saying I'm way too old.
2006-12-12 15:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No idea.
But then, what do you expect....! It's a bit like asking whether 'the readers here think your new hairstyle suites you.'
unless you provide a great deal more information about yourself, there is no way anyone other than a psychic can answer you properly.
Sash.
2006-12-12 22:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by sashtou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You;re not doing anything wrong, except maybe worrying about it too much. Stop waiting for a guy to ask you out and just get on with your life. It will happen when it's supposed to and when you least expect it.
2006-12-12 15:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by teary chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try making the first move yourself - if you go up to a guy you like the look of, it shows you have confidence.
Don't just wait for a guy to come up to you! Otherwise your opportunities will pass you by!
2006-12-12 15:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by Connector 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're too pretty and most guys are so bowled over by your beauty they are too scared to ask you out (thats from personal experience, i have no trouble making friends with pretty girls, but asking them out is very daunting!)!
So you're probably doing nothing wrong!
2006-12-12 16:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by homiepr8 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
May be your friends are just being nice and not telling the truth.
2006-12-12 15:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by Existentialist_Guru 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are expecting it to happen, I am 18 & single and loving it, I don’t have to answer to anyone. When your luck strikes, the right guy will walk up to you and you will just know it. TRUST ME
2006-12-12 15:29:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe guys are intimidated by you if you're as pretty as you say you are or maybe you come as across as stuck-up or arrogant, who knows.
2006-12-12 15:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you got my address ? Lets find out if theres a problem ! you sound fine to me !!! Are you local ?
2006-12-14 09:18:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋