In my eyes im trying to create a stable future for myself, so why are guys so indimidated and suprised by the fact that im so young but yet focused?
2006-12-12 07:24:16 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only the guys that you wouldn't be interested in are intimidated by you... think about it for a while, and you will understand exactly what I mean. Keep being you, and the RIGHT guy should follow someday. Good luck in your efforts.
btw: I don't think you're being "cocky", I think you're being confident - there IS a difference.
2006-12-12 07:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now, don't take what I'm about to tell you the wrong way. First of all, you sound very cocky there. You also sound like an over-achiever. Most guys like to be more accomplished than their spouses, and women like guys more accomplished than them (almost always) . . . your pursuing an MBA makes it difficult for a guy to live up to that. Also, you sound like you'd be too busy to be in a good relationship. I'm sure there are some out there who would date you, so don't get too discouraged. But the money issue, your being busy all the time, and your beauty (if you're telling the truth) will scare away many guys. The attitude isn't helping your cause either. Knowing only what I know now, I would not want to date you. Have a nice day!
2006-12-12 07:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How does pursuing an MBA make you strong or beautiful. Sure, it makes you intelligent but the others I don't see. I doubt many are intimidated but nobody likes a feminist. I'm not saying you are one but a lot of girls who call themselves that are feminists and that's the most annoying thing in the world. Besides even if they are, do you really want some guy who is intimidated by your success. Find yourself a successful guy who is proud to have a wife with a good career that has her **** together.
2006-12-12 07:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Continually most times those who think often are threats. You should remain steadfast and focused in your path in life. You will find someone to appreciate you for you, don't make changes for people if they can't meet you half way. Even then nothing should stop you from your dreams. Most guys are intimidated by women with intellect because it poses a threat to what they are trying to accomplish. Your much better than to ever dumb yourself down. I find what you explain to be the most attractive thing... focus, intelligence, and beauty both inside and out. These for me personally matter most. I say hold strong and those who are attracted to your positive energy will make themselves known. Never let your confidence waver in the face of seeking connection. I have held myself back in the past and have suffered through with ignorant women. I made a declaration to myself to pursue intelligent or smart women with focus. Success is nearer now than it was before on a personal level. I was once told that you must strive for greatness in order to be found by greatness with others. Positive attracts positive, motivation attracts the motivated, so forth and so on. Be you and test those who say they want you for you. They can do what needs to be done, but, can they stay strong and show more than what your asking for?Best of luck... Keep that inner sun shining bright to brighter cause currently I feel the heat from here.
2006-12-12 07:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys are intimidated by women period. Self assured woman do pose a problem for men with self esteem issues. But remember there is a difference between confident and conceited. Just be yourself I think you will find that attractive women are often overlooked no matter what their intelligence level is. Guys ego's are very fragile and the thought of rejection is a very scary prospect for us. You will find the right guy I am sure. Approach your search like you approach other area's of you life and you will be fine. You sound like you would be a wonderful match for any man.
2006-12-12 07:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jody May 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 16 I graduated from HS by the age of 21 I had my masters degree in psychology. By the age of 20 I was doing my internship at the facility which I worked for, for 12 years. I had problems finding men that weren't intimidated because I think most men want to be the one that earns more money and is "smarter". If they cant handle that your looking towards your future you don't need them in your present.
2006-12-12 07:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have a problem deciding if they want to use the lefty or the righty this time, haha....
You being confident just means they can not screw you over, you do not "need" them- as boys turn to men, they realize it is not about needing them, but you wanting them, and them supporting you emotionally-
Be glad you being so driven scares off most of the "dee dee dee's", it is saving you so much heart ache-
I thought going for older (I was 18, he was 35) would have me skip the butthole part of the boys in town, HA, I had to pick the one 35 yr old that was still 12-
2006-12-12 07:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never intimidated. What you are doing is fine and maybe the guys who are intimidated aren't the ones for you. You need an equally inteligent man in your life if you want to be happy. Anything less will have you always wondering if he feels insuperior. You don't need that if you are going to school and everything else. Just be yourself and eventually you'll find him. Or maybe you already have and don't even realize it.
2006-12-12 07:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes some men are intimidated by intellectual, beautiful women. That doesn't mean they still don't want one. Be sure to try and only see men of your equal in intelligence, or you may find yourself getting board when it's not sex time.
2006-12-12 07:29:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mike A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most are intimidated and not sure on how to handle them!
That includes the ones that say "I'm not intimidated" since they will eventually fall by the wayside knowing they will always play 2nd fiddle for awhile!
Best of luck to you!
2006-12-12 07:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Paul M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋