I feel lonely lol! It just seems to me that everywhere I turn there is a couple, kissing or holding hands!! : (
2006-12-12 07:18:43 · 72 answers · asked by oxEmmaxo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Enjoy the single life while it lasts. Trust me. You don't want all the boy drama, the pain, the heartache.
God has a plan for you and will bring you the right one in His time.
Just have faith in Him.
2006-12-12 07:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are independent, you can appreciate making your own decisions without consulting some one else. But... is this much Independence worth it? Being single can be oh so lonely. It's not easy being the 5th wheel when you go out with friends. Or being the one person sitting off in a corner from a crowd of people that is 99% couples. It's like you are always the one standing on the outside, looking in. Then there is our natural instinct of wanting to feel needed as well as loved by another human being. The single life for man or woman is not as great as many bachelors or bachelorettes would like for you to believe. Most of them are either in denial or trying to cover their loneliness.
2006-12-12 07:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, judging by the number of replies you've had I'd say there are a lot of lonely, single people out there (me included). Maybe we should stop paying attention to the happy loved-up couples and start looking a bit closer. We're probably not seeing all of the available singles out there!
2006-12-12 07:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I am tired of being singe. I have only dated two guys for a matter of weeks in the last two years. I miss so many things, someone holding your hand and telling you not to worrry and being there for you when things go wrong.
Mind you, I don't miss all the guys who bring all their baggage (yes same for women guys!) and moan on and on about their ex's and all the anxiety of contact with their children (can be hard for everyone especially the children). I don't miss the uncertainty stage, the stage when you have your first argument (has he gone off with someone else) and all usual day to day problems and compromise.
Remember, a relationship will not always enhance your life, people bring problems. Hey celebrate your singledom. Put your relationship destiny in the lap of the gods. Watch that dvd, meet your pals for coffee, join a gym, get out walking in the countryside. Invite mates over for dinner. The key is KEEP BUSY and get out there. You can have a lot of fun until the next guy turns up. I say this as I have met several guys who are not over their ex's and have brought van loads of misery.....unlucky maybe.....but I stand up, dust myself down and say to myself. God damn it, I am alive, well, have everything to get out there for and enjoy myself. Embrace Christmas, don't cancel out. Life is good, very good.... xxx
2006-12-12 07:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really tired, just frustrated and perplexed. I know there's no way of sounding like a concieted a$$hole as I say this (believe me, I'm not), but I am an awesome guy, a fact which keeps being reiterated by my friends whenever I unexpectedly show up whenever they think I can't make whatever social gathering is taking place. Why do women refuse me? I haven't the slightest.
2006-12-12 07:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being single does get old and lonely at times. If you want to meet someone well I suggest getting out there and carefully choosing the person that you get involved with. And don't forget to give yourself space and alone time; it's important for a healthy relationship and self being. There is always someone out there for each of us and just look for them, but not too hard...good luck!
2006-12-12 07:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After a high school relationship, I was single for many years. It was lonely and I got very tired of it. But I think it was necessary for me to be single in order to move on. You learn a lot about yourself. But yes, in short, it was very sad and tiring.
2006-12-12 07:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww, I feel what you are saying. I'm dating now, but when I am single I do feel this bit of loneliness and emptyness. But you know one, being single gives you time to know exactly what you want. If you've been in previous relationships, it also gives you and idea of what you want differently for your next relationship! So, don't worry or be sad about it too much! Good Luck (Muah)
Krazy Libra
2006-12-12 07:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times i want to be single, especially when i see couples kissing or holding hands lol
2006-12-12 07:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by short 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be sum one just around the corner i was single since July after be in with my husband for 12 yrs n just 2 wks ago i got with sum one i had known for 15 yrs so u never know.Gud luck tho Hun ...
2006-12-12 07:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋