I liked this guy ever since school started. We hung out and he kissed me. Then I found out that he's had a gf since october. Am I wrong to sill like him? A LOT!!
2006-12-12 07:15:49 · 41 answers · asked by cocolicious_7042814 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely not. Did he have a girlfriend when he kissed you? that just makes him a jerk and leading you on. You're not wrong to still like him, in fact its natural. Just be careful cuz if h e'll do that to his girlfriend now you dont know what kinda guy he is...
2006-12-12 07:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me once. Except we didn't kiss (thank God). I didn't even know he had a girlfriend at the time. He had told me years later though that he considered dumping his girlfriend of a year for me...
You can't control your feelings. But you CAN control your actions. Don't do anything with this guy anymore. He's already taken and apparently he's just using you.
Be strong enough to drop him. You don't need to be played like this. You're better off without him if he's just leading you on like this.
Besides, what if you 2 started going out? How can you be able to trust him not to find some OTHER girl and kiss HER?! He's probably just gonna do the same thing to you as he is doing to his girlfriend right now.
You don't want someone like that.
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2006-12-12 07:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends... Why do you like him? Is it just the way he looks or do you actually know anything about him. If it's just a physical attraction, you're not wrong. Not many people can change lust. If it's beyond a physical attraction, then why would you like a guy that's not honest with you or his current girlfriend. I guess either way, you're not wrong, but if you want a relationship with this guy, then you need to consider what you want out of a relationship. Arm candy or a friend that you have a physical and emotional bond with. If it's genuine companionship you're looking for, chances are you're not going to find it from this guy.
Bottom line, YOU are not wrong for the feelings you have, but you're FEELINGS may be wrong. It happens.
2006-12-12 07:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by FBWillie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would it be wrong to like someone? you can like whoever you want...it's what you do that makes a difference...if you didn't know that he had a gf when you kissed then there shouldn't be anything to worry about...just don't go kissingg him again until he's single...you wouldn't want another girl kissin on your man, now would you? on the other hand why would you like a guy who isn't faithful...he kissed you while he had a gf, what do you think he's going to do if you two hook up? I'd stay the H-E-double hockey sticks away from him...if he was unfaithful once he will be unfaithful twice; they gain confidence every time they are unfaithful, it gets easier and easier to do...
2006-12-12 07:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by Shannon M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not wrong to still like him. But you are wrong to go after him. Maybe ask him why he kissed you when he had a girlfriend. Its hard to get over people sometimes but look for the next cute guy and start by going after him.
2006-12-12 07:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by rdwngfever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In good places people at school have several gfs and bfs because they are smart and not having sex yet just dating.
In retarded places they start having sex as soon as they start dating so there is all kind of drama from the territorial thing.
Are you at a lame place or a good place ?
Hope you are at a good place where you can date everyone until you find a keeper . . . good luck
2006-12-12 07:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not wrong for liking him I mean sometimes we cant help who we become attracted to but if anyone is wrong it is him for several reason 1. he has a gf and he goes behind her back and kisses you(dog) 2. he didnt have enough decency to tell you he had one before you two kissed so in terms of liking him your not wrong but if you keep up messn around with him knowing he has a gf then you'd be dead wrong cuz you wouldnt want ur bf to do that to you would you?
2006-12-12 07:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not wrong to like him, you can't help who you like. You would be wrong, however, to try to persue anything with him knowing that he has a girlfriend. If he's kissing other girls while he has a girlfriend then I don't think they'll be dating much longer. If you wait, I'm sure his relationship will be going down the drain in a bit.
2006-12-12 07:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kallie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still like him, there's no right/wrong to that. As to whether you'll want anything else seeing how he treats his gfs, that's up to you. You can like a dog, at the same time realize he's just a dog.
2006-12-12 07:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by C-Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. You are not wrong, but I don't think you should still like him considering he misled you. You don't need someone like that. What if you two were together, wouldn't you worry about him kissing someone else when you are his girlfriend. He was not honest with you from the beginning.
2006-12-12 07:18:29 · answer #10 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋