i met this really nice guy who also happens to be rich. we both work in real estate, so we met when he came to my office. we went out for lunch once and i really enjoyed myself except the fact that my boss only gave me an hour for lunch, which i didn't appreciate. anyway, we talked on the phone and he even asked me if i wanted to get my hair and nails done, which he said every man should do for his woman! after lunch he asked me to call him and when i did he said he wanted to come to my house and i said "not today" and he said ok i'll speak with you soon. yesterday i called him and left a voice message saying hi and that i was wondering if one of his properties were still available and he called me back it home saying it was still available and nothing more! he could have returned my call at the office and not home.. i'm now left wondering why he's so distant, help???
2006-12-12 07:13:27 · 15 answers · asked by chocy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not being distant, just careful. You asked him about a property, not out for coffee or whatever.
2006-12-12 07:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because he said only that, that doesn't mean that he's basically acting distant to you. Maybe it's not what you did. For all you know, he could just be having a bad day or something. So you know what you do? What you do is to wait. Don't rush him, or your relationship. Over time, if he really likes you that way, it'll work out...for the BOTH of you.
2006-12-12 15:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by treerose810 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I wouldn't have been offended by a man suggesting me to let my hair and nails done...
I would have feel very insecure like: does he not like my hair, does he not think my nails are OK? Why?
And of course, you nice girl doesn't go to people' s house when you know them only for let us say...
He looks like not very refined, for me...
But then, I am me and you are you and I was never impressed by people because they were rich... except if they have a good heart...
Sorry, I think you deserve someone better!
2006-12-12 15:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by klaartedubois 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be a little miffed at the "not today" comment. Call him up and ask him over for dinner. Maybe he'll spark back up and this will all be a silly misunderstanding.
2006-12-12 15:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you rejected him its now up to you to make the next move. calling about business is not the next move it was actually more conformation that you want just a business relationship. his calling you at home-he was giving you the opportunity to take it personal again but you kept it business only witch would leave him thinking you are only interested in a professional relationship.
2006-12-12 15:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by insomniman1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess he's looking for a fling and when you slowed him down it looks like you want a relationship. If that's what you want stand firm. If you want a quick roll in the hay let him come over whenever he wants. Is it also possible there is a woman in his home? Its not like he invited you over?
2006-12-12 15:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's probably seeing several woman at once. No doubt. And he's having a hard time juggling all of them.
2006-12-12 15:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he wanted you to come over and you know...
So now that you said no and he knows you wont put out so easily he's not interested.Consider yourself lucky not to have to deal with that.
2006-12-12 15:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he felt rejected when you told him, "Not today" about him coming to your house and now he is throwing a tantrum. That's all I can think about.
2006-12-12 15:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by abeauty1102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks youre a gold digger
2006-12-12 15:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by confusedbrowngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋