2006-12-12 07:13:10 · 7 answers · asked by gardenia33_99 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love comes when you least expect it.
You can't keep searching for it or else it won't come.
God will give you the right guy in His time. He has a plan for you.
Just have faith in Him.
2006-12-12 07:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, realize that you dont need a guy in order to be happy.
Once you've become more comfortable being alone with yourself, other people will be more comfortable with you too.
Then, look at yourself (not like in a mirror, do some soul searching) and discover all that you have to offer to a man who is smart enough to get to know you. When you realize that you are a unique and valuable person, others will see that in you too.
Finally, set some standards. Set them high and dont compromise them easily. Its like going out clubbing. Anyone can get into the bar, so its no big deal, and not anyone's idea of a great night out. But at a fancy nightclub, theres a bouncer and a line to get in. Theres a dress code, a cover charge, and a three drink minimum. And thats the club everyone wants to go to.
Quit dating guys who aren't up to your standards, who just want sex, or dont treat you right. They can keep going to the bars. Theres lots of em out there who'll let them in. Only date guys who meet your tough standards, dress codes, and can be relied upon to behave themselves in a nice fancy club. Its a pretty cheesey analogy, I know, but the more exclusive you are the more guys will want to ask you out.
Please note, I'm not telling you to be stuck up, or ignore any men who arent in your league. Nobody likes a snooty stuck up sort. Remember that lots of shabby guys have sometimes very nice, suitable friends.
2006-12-12 07:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for a guy?
If so stop! Often in life the right person usually falls into your lap when you aren't looking. Are you spiritual? If so pray about it, and do be so picky in your prayer, "God i want a man, who's tall, handsome, rich, muscular, into pets..."
Ask God to put someone into your life that is good for you and see what happens. It worked for me and i've been married for 7 years - 2 kids.
2006-12-12 07:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just start putting out more. The more guys you are willing to sleep with the more you will meet. Quit being so picky. Drop the laundry and get busy!!!
2006-12-12 07:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Breaking hearts since 1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking. It always happens when you stop stressing about men and become secure and confident in yourself. Men are attracted to women who are not love crazy and have their own life.
2006-12-12 07:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking so hard! Trust me, you'll find him when you stop looking!
2006-12-12 07:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by TTC Cycle#20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will someday.
2006-12-12 07:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋