to think that I will never find someone. I'm not a negative person at all but lately I have kind of been feeling this way. I think its just too many bad dates. It seems like the ones who are interested in me I'm just not interested in. I give every guy a fair shot but if its not there its not there. And when something is there the guy ends up being a jerk.
2006-12-12 07:13:07 · 7 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes...you are wrong...there is someone out there for everyone!....just have to keep looking and don't settle for just anyone!
2006-12-12 07:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand. That is the way it is with me and women. I believe it has something to do with being attracted to the same kind of person. If one relationship fails, you tend to fall right back into the same situation with another person that is much like the previous one. (reason for second & third divorce's)
We are drawn to a certain type of people. We must learn to be attracted to the least likely person you would consider to be right. Now, I know if I'm not attracted, I won't go there. So, I don't really know what to do either, except be a little more forgiving and giving it a real chance. They say love will come if you aren't looking for it. So, maybe this will help. Good Luck
2006-12-12 15:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U probaly are overseen the good qualities,(been too picky) My husband when we started to date he was... lol sooooo dorky looking, He knows this.. so well he had big glasses and you know hes hair was way too long. Well, I dated him anyways because he was a nice guy, after 2 months well, no one regnozize him. I had change him so drasticly that girls were actually looking at him and asking me about him. But i think this is why we have been 8 years togueter because I falled in love with him not his fisical. Now hes a cutie. U need to open your heart and close your eyes for a while.
2006-12-12 15:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by u_better_remember_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go through alot of bad apples. Thats all I can say. I have my share too. Even when you find one they can still be jerks, but you love em anyway. Dont give up.
2006-12-12 15:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by cutelil_bubble21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. I know it's easy to say, but you don't want to settle for a jerk. You'll find your match. Till then, hang out with the girls, do your thing. It will happen when it happens. Good luck--
2006-12-12 15:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe stop trying so hard. Take a brake and hang out with friends and try not to think about it. Then when your not looking, a great man will fall in your lap.
2006-12-12 15:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by kayla0428 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, keeping in mind that 75% of men are jerks, don't let it get you down when you meet one. Just chalk it up to experience and move on! :)
2006-12-12 15:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by C-Man 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋