I'm probably having a bad day but I thing girls cannot be friends ever, because of jealousy and selfishness, and guys are not interested in being friends to girls, so I'm thinking about getting along alone
2006-12-12 06:58:40 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, actually it is possible to have a nice life without friends. Many, many people in history have not had friends and have found great fulfillment in life.
The truth is that loneliness is a state of mind. Being alone is a state of being.
Check this out: http://www.personal-development.com/chuck/loneliness.htm
Sometimes it is important to be alone so that you can reflect on your situation---get more in touch with your thoughts and feelings--and get a fresh perspective. This is why people spend many hours in meditation and prayer. You can gain much benefit from this....Good luck!
2006-12-12 07:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by happy4u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now, when you are young, it's difficult to develop relationships with either sex. Some people who you think of as your friends end up betraying you. Relationhips need to be nourished if they are to suceed. The friends you have now, probably won't be your friends 20 years from now. It is possible to have a nice life without friends, however everyone needs to feel connected to others. You don't want to be old and alone, that is the worst.
2006-12-12 07:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by moveandlose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It IS possible but not a good idea! You just have to find atleast ONE good friend! You don't need a ton! In fact, one GOOD friend is a better idea because you can always count on loyalty. There are plenty of guys out there that don't get along with their male peers and just need a friend to talk to and a girl is perfect for this! I grew up with nothing but guy friends simply because girls were so much like you said! Petty and secretive and so nasty to each other! When girls fight, they hang onto it for YEARS sometimes! But boy's don't even remember if they had a fight with you the day before and end up hanging out the next day! LOL It's great! If your a girl and you don't get along with other girls (much like me) there are alot of male friends out there! Go find one! I'm female but I'm not petty and stupid like that!
2006-12-12 07:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No my I asked my doctor that same question actually and he said that actually 83% of our good health depends on Friends and family. And if you don't have Friends you won't have anyone to talk to when your in trouble. You need Friends no matter how happy you are. There what keep us happy and in good moods. That is what I was told and that is what i will go by the rest of my life.
2006-12-12 07:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by geronamoe2001 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not possible to have a "nice" life without friends. Humans are creatures that act in social groups and abide by a social order. So unless you are some aberration of nature mutant or otherwise the answer is still no.
2006-12-12 07:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by outspoken 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I doubt it, you don't have to have close friends but casual friends. You never know you might have a best friend out there that you haven't discovered. But yea, it is hard to be friends w/ females. Some are okay but then you have some that are the jealosy type. O* well, I guess that's life.
2006-12-12 07:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by abeauty1102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of route society will say that this is kinda incorrect and for all you comprehend he must be a pedo. yet pals eh? I gained't discover it unusual yet i comprehend alot of human beings mite imagine ur his daughter and 2 is he married? Or replaced into? Or has toddlers? imagine about it previously doing some thing ok? yet get to understand him more advantageous suited previously being on my own with him. actually if I were you i does not call.
2016-11-30 11:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it is. Friends are only your friends, because they want something from you, they have a need and you fill it. If you could provide nothing for them, they have no need for you. I keep in touch with my friend Mike because he is a mechanic, so if my car ever breaks down, I know my "friend" Mike will help me out. Even if it is as simple as company, that is something that you need from someone, you dont just call someone for no reason, you call because you are bored, that is filling your need.
2006-12-12 07:26:39 · answer #8 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes with people you have to be discreet, not everyone should know all the details of your life. You let people know what you want them to know, learn how to be humble.
I married into wealth, but I didn't know that once I was married. My husband told me after we were married that we have a lot of money. I learned that not showing off my stuff is better and just keeping it to myself because people do get envious of you. I love my friends dearly but I don't need them to say "hey she has money, I can ride her coat tails".
Be humble.
2006-12-12 07:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can live without friends. You may however get lonely. I weeded out all of my backstabbing friends. Now I am down to just 1 TRUE friend. I like it much better that way.
2006-12-12 07:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋