hi i love this girl very much i know she had a sort of affair with other person but he was not true to her n left to marry someother..then i met this girl n we just went along sooo well i just couldnt dream for anything else she is soo supportive so understanding its so great but i have this feeling deep down inside that i am not the first person in her life what she says is that she never knew what really love is b4 she belived the previous person as she desperately needed support as she had problems with her family even i had a affair with somebody else b4 n she she knows about it...will i be doing right by involving with her..
2006-12-12 06:57:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who cares if she had a boyfriend before? If you two care about each other and respect one another, than everything is fine. If you are looking for girls who never had boyfriends before, good luck! Don't know where you are from but it doesn't really happen here. Don't mean to sound disrespectful.
2006-12-12 07:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Miss T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things can easily go wrong in a relationship and result in an ugly end. But just because she was unlucky and got fooled before this doesn't mean you shouldn't get involved with her. Even if her previous relationship was good, but had to end for some reason, it wouldn't be fair to judge her because of this. Leave the past to the past and live what can be in the present so that you can invest in a good future. If she's been broken before then she'll need your love and support even more, not your second thoughts or doubts. If she's right for you in the rest of the ways just go for it ;)
2006-12-12 07:09:07 · answer #2 · answered by speedy eleni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine you need to have sex at the same time as it feels good for me. even with the undeniable fact that I dont imagine this "second" can come till youve been at the same time a minimum of a 12 months or maybe then that doesnt recommend you've too. You both must be waiting and responsible adequate for what sex ability. After being at the same time one month you easily dont comprehend each and each and every othe 100% thoroughly. i'd wait. reason fortunately ever after, forver and continually can end speedier than all of it began and also you dont favor to seem and be like damn what the F replaced into I wondering.
2016-11-25 23:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by holts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure where you are from, but where I live, most people have been with other people before they got with their true love. It doesn't mean she will have an affair any more than it means you will. Give her a chance and try to forget her past, because that's what it is a past. She wants you to be her future and you should be happy knowing that.
2006-12-12 07:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for it. If you don't you will regret not knowing whether she could have been the one for you for the rest of your life.
I agree with the saying 'its better to have been loved and hurt than never loved at all' (i think thats the wording lol)
There is nothing wrong with having boyfriends prior to meeting you. There is no way you can find the right person without looking around for them.
2006-12-12 07:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lennon1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think people like you should ever have a girlfriend because you just cant seem to see the good things in life even if they dance naked in front of you(no pun intended). You should think about the other million urban indian guys who wish they had a girlfriend whom they could love and treat as a queen.
2006-12-12 12:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by sudheesh s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone has had a past. It does not matter about the past, the present and the future is with you both. If you really like her, even love her, your lives start from now and not what was
2006-12-12 11:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man nobody holds a board that they have a boy friend, you love a person for them not for the person they love or don't, so if your love is true and strong have faith. or else 'flame to dust lovers to friend' hear Nelly furtado song.
2006-12-12 07:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by rajiv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's gr8 to find someone who is such a nice person........there is really no reason for you to leave her unless she has been unfaithful to you........u also have been in a previous relationship i think it should somehow be easier for you to understand that in the long journey called life we do meet wrong people but that should not stop us from meeting Mr or Ms. right.........go ahead give your relationship a shot.........it's really gr8 for u to accept that she's had a rough life so be her knight in shining armour........all the best..........
2006-12-15 00:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she has had other boyfriend(s), this does not make her unworthy of anyone. Here in the USA we date many people sometimes before we find the right one.
2006-12-12 07:01:35 · answer #10 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋