I met a girl online and we have grown super close. She lives 1000miles away. She saw a pic of me that is 1yr old from a old profile. Over the last year, I had a difficult medical incident. My hair is receding now and I look a little different. I am not a deceitful person, but I don't know how to present to her the fact that I have changed when we have grown so close in our conversations, lives, etc. The 'relationship' just progressed and now we really want to meet each other. What's the best way to present this to her. It's tearing me up inside because I really care about her. I'm still in great shape, driven, and the same person, I just have less hair up front, which from my experience the last year does not bode well with the ladies in comparison to my life last year. Yes, I know it's whats inside that matters...but initial attraction is important. Any ideas?
2006-12-12 06:55:13 · 3 answers · asked by Curious George 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should be honest about the medical incident. I mean, either way... she's gonna find out, right? Might as well be truthful now. If she really likes you for you, it won't matter. : }
2006-12-12 06:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don’t lie. That’ll screw you even more. I suggest you drop her and met someone closer. Long distance stuff never works.
2006-12-12 06:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by nickthegenius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she likes you for who you are, she wont care what you look like.
2006-12-12 06:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by _heartbreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋