When I make love to my gf and I c-u-m inside her. I like to stay there for a while and hold her while still inside kissing and enjoying the feeling I just experienced. I get the feeling she is in a hurry to jump up and run to the toilet and sit on it and drain it out. Does it feel bad to women or weird in some way that you have to jump up and go drain it out? I have had several women in my life do that. It spoils the experience for me.
2006-12-12 06:53:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like the cuddling too. My guess is some girls might feel dirty??? Would she do it even if you used a condom? Ask her why she does. It doesn't change anything to drain right after or later. To those who say that the girl doesn't want to get pregnant, I'm sorry but if you have no birth control and the guy doesn't wear a condom, no matter how fast you get to that toilet, you are still at risk. It isn't a contraceptive method.
2006-12-12 07:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by Miss T 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's very honest of you, and probably a difficult question to ask. I would imagine it's different from one woman to the next, but there is always the question about pregnancy. If you're having unprotected sex, or even if she's on BC, there's a chance it could result in pregnancy. And if she's not ready for that kind of lifetime commitment, it could cause post-sex weirdness.
You'll have to talk to your GF to get the specifics on her situation, but be honest with her, too, and I'm sure she'll explain what's going on for her. Not only that, she'll really appreciate it that you want to make sex more enjoyable for her...maybe there's a solution you two can come up with that will let you both enjoy it without the trip to the bathroom.
Good luck--
2006-12-12 07:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they dont want to get pregnant. But then again if they now that they shouldnt have unprotected sex with yo. I c nothing wrong with it I mean when I have sex with my sposue and he comes in me I love the fact that he stays there and hold me it makes the sex even better. Maybe you need to talk to your spouse, Now if this is not someone that you care about then you shouldnt be having unprotected sex and u need to get your mind right. But if it is u let her know that you feel a little weird that she wants 2 hurry up and get up. Let her know that it kind of spoils the mood and if she didnt want u to *** in her then she should have told you to put on a condom so at least when you are laying there inside of her u can still enjoy her warmness. Trust me it feels great to just lay there for a while and feel all the juices combinding together. WOW!!!!! talk to her and see what happens
2006-12-12 07:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
will be because they have been ridden demanding and at the same time as the guy is achieved with what he needs he doesn't care about what take position to her. It easily isn't for love on the adult males area. All he needs is to get his rocks off and go onto the subsequent. She doesn't imagine about that on the time they're doing it, so perhaps it truly is why the lady sense the way she does after a one nighttime stand. probable even worse for a married female at the same time as she realizes that she has to bypass lower back to someone that wasn't almost as good because the only she had a one nighttime stand with.
2016-11-25 23:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by holts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's their problem if they do that. They are missing out on an intimate experience that far exceeds just sex. Most women complain that their guy jumps up right away and they want to do the kissing and holding, so right now I'm a bit confused.......
2006-12-12 06:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by MiMi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The love juice tends to leak out and makes us feel like we are peeing on ourselves. Also, if you urinate after sex it decreases the chance of a urinary tract and/or bladder infection. But, she could lay there for a little while and enjoy the attention. I always do that with my husband.
2006-12-12 07:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by smittinkittin33 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay well for me I like it when my boyfriend cums inside me, except afterward I'm like omg what if I get pregnant! I think that's the biggest scare after. That or they REALLY need to go to the bathroom. Women are supposed to pee after intercourse to clean "themselves out" so to say. The actually "*** feeling" inside of us feels incredible, at least I think so, it's just feel the need to clean up quicker than you guys!
2006-12-12 06:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the person. Maybe if she goes to the bathroom beforehand, she wont have the urge to jump up and go. I agree with you however, I personally think its better to stay and be held. Let them know how you are feeling.
2006-12-12 06:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by Spoiled 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good boy well actually bad boy when it comes to my situation and i have to decide whether he should stay or not i decide to not let him because I am afraid of getting pregnant but honestly the couple of times that it has slipped and we just enjoyed the moment it was like the best feeling in the world so i can't understand why they would do that well gotz to go cuz i gotz to pee so n e ways just ask that chick how she feels and work you way through that.
2006-12-12 07:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by turtle 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
LOL...I hope she is on birth control. I have only let a guy *** in me once...and I got pregnant and had a baby. I didn't feel uncomfortable when he did it but I did get freaked out because I wasn't on birth control. It was the one time I got caught up in the moment and just let it happen.
2006-12-12 06:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by Kokolicious06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋