Hey Everyone-
I truly do like this bankteller at the bank that I go to, the past few days I have tried to talk to her and the next teller is ear shot away and she could hear or listen to what I would say to the bankteller. What should i do about that? I thought of writting a note, and I just dont know what to say in the note. Can ya give me advice on what Ishould say in the note, thanks i really appreciate ur help bc I really do like her. Thanks again
2006-12-12 06:50:57 · 10 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DONT write a note.. she might get freaked out and push her security button. Just suck it up and talk to her. This will show her that you are man enough to speak up and that she is worth letting others hear you ask her out.
2006-12-12 06:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by nease174 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I worked as a Bank Teller for a year and a half... and I'm just going to tell you a note probably isn't the greatest way to ask her out. We're pretty much trained that if we get a note, we're getting robbed. So, just don't do it. As far as another teller overhearing you, it's not like they're going to make fun of you later behind your back. Chances are, the other teller isn't even listening to you guys talking. Just be honest with her and ask for her number or something... that way you can tell her in private without anyone else listening. Just don't pass a note... TRUST ME! My friend, who was a teller, got a note from a man asking her out... and I'm not going to lie... that was a lot more creepy than if he would have just told her he was interested... we still make fun of him... he's nicknamed the "Notepasser"... you DEFINITELY don't want that... do ya?
2006-12-12 07:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest... tell her how you feel. Don't make it too long, especially if you've never gotten into any conversation before. Tell her you think she's cute/nice/funny and maybe ask her for coffee or drinks.
Careful with a note, though.. you don't want anyone to think you're robbing the place :)
2006-12-12 06:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by psykochatter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful your note doesn't mention anything about "This will only take a minute..." or the teller will be calling security on you so fast!
2006-12-12 06:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by mrjohntesh 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
passing a note to a bank teller doesn't sound like a very good idea to me.
2006-12-12 07:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHRISTMAS IS COMING,
GIVER HER A NOTE IN THE FORM OF A CARD.
AND HAND WRITE YOUR FEELINGS LIKE :
MERRY CHRISTMAS...
I JUST WANT TO TAKE A MOMENT TO LET YOU KNOW THAT YOUR A BEAUTIFUL LADY BOTH INSIDE AND OUT AND I WANDERED IF WE COULD GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER BETTER OVER COFFEE OR A DINNER.
IF SO CALL ME AT (111)111_1111
HAVE A VERY NICE DAY AND I LOOK FORWARD TO A CALL,
ME
2006-12-12 06:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this. it's best if you include an actual bank deposit/withdrawal slip with it, otherwise the other people on line will knife you for making them wait. anyway, try to be non-sappy, it's asking her out, not a love note (yet). try the simple approach, "Hey. my name's ______. i was wondering...would you like to go out with me sometime?" include your number at the bottom. it'll work, i can tell you it'll catch her off guard. lol. good luck. i'll be in touch, email me if you'd like advice on anything else (maybe like asking the cop that pulled you over out).
2006-12-12 06:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to make a deposit....in her @ss.
2006-12-12 07:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask for free money and tell her u will split it
2006-12-12 06:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by Danny G 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"I have a gun" "Give me all the money" "Hands Up"
2006-12-12 06:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋