ive asked my mom about it and she has told me many times he is but the math just doesnt add up. from the time they knew eachother to the time they had me was only 7 months. how can i go about finding out if he really is my dad without him knowing if possible. i dont want to start any arguments.
2006-12-12 06:38:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Did he raise you? Was he there when you were crying and comfort you? Did he bounce you on his knee? If the answer is yes....Then he is your DAD..
I was dealt with this same situation. And My other was honest. SHe said that she wasnt sure. I was grown when i found this out. And that she was sure i was but could never be 100%. So i decided it didnt matter wether he was my biological father or not. That him being my DADDY was enough. ANd Now knowing that he knew this also and that he didnt care, that he loved me regardless was and still is enough.
2006-12-12 06:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by tekaye70 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blood doesn't make a dad. Love, time, energy, money, hugs, and kisses makes a dad. It takes a very special man to take in a woman and her child and raise the child as his own. If the math is the only thing that leads you to believe that he isn't your sperm donor, then I'd say that's one hell of a dad you've got there. Instead of trying to get to the bottom of it, accept it and give him a big hug tonight for being so wonderful to you.
2006-12-12 06:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kallie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend it isn't the respond you're searching for, yet you would be able to desire to purely blurt it out. do no longer act love it incredibly is a foul element and don't convey regret or make excuses. It in simple terms befell, and in simple terms concentration on the blessing. in the experience that your mum and dad are nevertheless mutually, have your mom there too, or a brother or sister. If he's previous formed, then the marriage concern is particular to come back up. How does your loved ones like your boyfriend? If he's no longer nicely enjoyed, then it would desire to be complicated. yet once you hold the concentration on you and your determination to maintain your toddler, it would mushy over incredibly with out postpone. you're an grownup now and that i'm particular he figured that this might ensue sometime. Your father loves you and might opt for to comprehend what's happening with you. you ought to tell him previously the toddler does :-)
2016-10-05 05:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your right to know! go right to your dad and say dad... i have been doing some math and well... the dates dont add up ...can you explain to me why.? are you my real father? cause youll always be my daddy! a lot of men cant lie as well as women can. catch him when your mom is not around.
but just be sure you know what you are asking. you may wish you never knew. ask yourself this...does it really matter? is it gonna change anything? some things are better left alone.
2006-12-12 06:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a DNA test will tell you so. They cost about $ 250 - $ 300 depending on where you get them. Check the Internet for labs that will send it through the mail. A simple mouth swab for the both of you and there you go! Good luck!
2006-12-12 06:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has this man raised you? Loved you and supported you? Been there for your school plays and recitals and games? Then he's your dad...why does it matter if the math doesn't add up?
And wouldn't you feel bad if you tried to dig up all this dirt, just to find out that you were a premmie?
2006-12-12 06:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be grateful that someone has claimed you whether if he is your biological father or not. It takes a real man to step up and do another a s s wipes job. He loves you doesn't he? Baby that's all that matters. Plus dad, father, pops or whatever, it's just a word.
2006-12-12 06:52:58 · answer #7 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he love you? does he treat you good? are you his little girl? does he protect you? does he support you in all you do? does he make you smile? do you love him? does he treat you, your mom, your siblings (if any) better then he treats himself? would he do anything in the world for you? any man can be a father, it takes someone damn special to be a DAD. why break his heart and your heart and your moms heart? if he is there, and he loves you as his own special child, leave well enough alone. if he is not your biological father, so.... don't rock the boat. you may not have a good life jacket.feel special in having a dad. not wanting a different one. tell him you love him and let this go.....
2006-12-12 07:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by anna s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean from the time they were married to having you or the time that they knew each other for sure?
If what you say is true, no... He is NOT your dad.
2006-12-12 06:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get a DNA test....then you will know for sure. But your dad is going to find out, just explain to him how you feel im sure that he will understand.
2006-12-12 07:00:35 · answer #10 · answered by annastar92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋