OK WELL I'M 21 YRS OLD AND IJUST RECENTLY MOVED IN WITH MY B/F 4 MONTHS AGO AND WE'VE BEEN DATING FOR THE PAST YEAR AND HALF BUT FOR THE 1ST YEAR WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER WE ONLY SPENT 12 WEEKS TOGETHER UNLIKE A NORMAL COUPLE WOULD. BUT TO THE MAIN SUBJECT, MY B/F WORKS OUT FO TOWN ALL WEEK SUMTIME 2 WEEKS AT A TIME IN DIFFERENT STATES AND WE BARLEY GET TO SEE EACH OTHER NOR SPEN TIME WITH EACH OTHER, I SEE HIM SUMTIMES IF IMLUCKY 1-2 DAYS A WEEK. BUT I'M HAVINA HARD TIME DEALING WITH THIS CUZ IT SEEMS LIKE IM NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP AT ALL.WHAT SHOULD I DO? IM JUST GETTIN USE TO THE FACT THAT I HAVE TO BE ALONE AT HOME. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE? IM USE TO SEEING MY B/F ON A REGULAR BASES NOT JUST THE WEEKENDS. SO IF ANYONE HAS ANY TIPS ON WHAT I SHOULD DO THAT WOULD BE VERY HELPFUL...
2006-12-12 06:22:41 · 8 answers · asked by Sweet N Loveable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Next time youre with him, discuss the pro's and con's of him being away for so long at a time
Does he make good money by having to leave for so long? Could he make nearly the same amount of money if he had a job nearby?
Maybe if you got a job during the week it wouldnt seem like such a wait for him to come back
Tell your boyfriend how you feel and ask him if its possible for him to get a job closer to home without sacrificing too much money to do so
2006-12-12 06:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by Starlight*Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you seem like a really sweet girl, so if you really love this guy, then you should stick it out, as long as you think he is not playing you for a fool. If you have doubts and think that it is not going to work then your best bet is to avoid the inevidable and break up.
However, when you get a chance to see him, maybe you should sit him down and discuss how you feel with him. There could possibly be a very easy solution to your problem if you just sit and talk to him about it.
2006-12-12 14:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by CHERYL H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That totally sucks, hun. Heres what i would do. talk to him and tell him how you're feeling. Maybe there is a logical solution that you havent thought of? Can you move to be closer to him? Can he find a more stable job? If not, then it unfortuantely doesn't seem like you two are on the same page. I know it's hard, but a relationship is about spending time together and beging there for eachother. IF neither of you are willing to change then maybe its time to move on...
2006-12-12 14:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay home and become a boring person. Go out with friends, have fun! Do interesting stuff outside the home. He'll notice that you have your own life and he'll make an effort to be in your exciting life. Do not stay home and constantly nag him about hardly spending time together. You're young! GO OUT AND LIVE HARD!!!.
2006-12-12 14:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO advice here, I couldn't live like that myself. It's all up to YOU. How long will this job take him from you? Is it worth it? Does he have a woman in every city? Are you gonna cheat on him out of loneliness? Can you stand living alone with your b/f? He's NOT there...it wouldn't work for ME. Get a pet! Good luck!
2006-12-12 14:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by wintermiss 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You either need to find a place closer to his job or he needs to find a job closer to you. I know it's not easy to think alot when he is off somewhere else and you never get to see him. Tell him what you want
2006-12-12 14:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jason9802 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make the time he spends with you be the best, with all your hard efforts, and try n go with him outdoors, or just make him remember how much u luv him.
2006-12-12 14:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by ridhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you shouting?
2006-12-12 14:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋