As many of yall know my 3 year realationship problem. and if yall dont this is a short story long i was with this girl who i loved very very much we broke up on november 29. on dec.5 i tried calling ehr to talk to her but she didnt want to tlak to me no more or even see me as of right now she is seein some one else and since christmas is right around the corner i was wondeirng if i should get her something.?
2006-12-12 06:19:00 · 13 answers · asked by Mick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
~Absolutely not! Dude, you need to move on.~
2006-12-12 06:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart- my heart totally goes out to you- and I know u cannot not just turn off love like u do a light switch BUT just send her a nice card as u would a friend to let her know u r thinking of her. Its obvious she doesnt share the same feelings as you do so move on and find a woman who really will appreciate you for your love and kindness! Time will heal all wounds and u may never ever forget this love- but one day u will remember her with a smile instead of tears! Move on and find a TRUE love who is right now looking for you too!
2006-12-12 14:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey mann,in which age r u living .and hav u gone nuts or wot?see the scenario would hav been different if she wouldnt b interested in som1 else.then u could of thought of patching up with her.itz no point in doing all these stuff as she will sideline u.c i know u r really feeling sentimental,but keep a hold on ur emotions yaar.emotions will carry u nowhere n it will ruin u.so,my advise would b 2 move on now n start a new lif.i know itz very difficult 2 do,but as time goz by ur wounds will b healed up.
2006-12-12 21:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by bodhisatta m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately NOT She is with someone else now as this will harm her new relationship. Save yourself money and further heartache and keep all the love you have and gifts for that special someone that will come in to your life when you least expect it to
2006-12-12 19:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait ...i had to edit my answer... she is your ex... and doesn't want to have anything to do with you right now. If you love her so much, dont you want her to be happy? Give her space and dont give her a gift. Seems like your just trying to find excuses to get in contact with her. Move on ...let go.. Keep busy and surround urself with ur friends and loved ones...
2006-12-12 14:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by BuNNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to read this article on how to cope with a break-up. Sorry about that, but i think you should let her go. Believe me, you'll find someone else and you will be happy.
http://www.relationship-affairs.com/your-ex.html
2006-12-12 14:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No . I personally don't think you should get her a gift.If she is datting already she will more han likely be getting something from her new boyfriend.
Besides it'll make you think about her more than you already are.
You need healing time.Maybe you should focus on your other relationships.
2006-12-12 14:26:16 · answer #7 · answered by cairasmom11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not if I were you. She is seeing someone else and you buying her a gift would make it akward on her new boyfriend and she would probably be mad at you. Plus, remember you are broke up. Good luck.
2006-12-12 14:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she likes you anymore! so no dont bother getting her a present
2006-12-12 14:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by A C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah dude cut your losses and move on ! She is done with you ! Sorry !
2006-12-12 14:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by Back Off Jack ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want but it will not help the situation and she will probably not appreciate it
2006-12-12 14:21:20 · answer #11 · answered by TR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋