okay well me n my bf have been datin for a while now he told me he dint want me to brake his heart or any thing! and he told me that he wants to marry me n have kids one day! last nite he told me he loved me last nite! i was very happy that he did and i was shocked and i told i ii love u to! i dunno like how can u tell if he means it!
2006-12-12 06:15:47 · 3 answers · asked by *SoMe*OnE*SeCeRt* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well....first of all...would you wanna get married to him?
if you want: lucky you! he wants you!! if he just sais ''i love you'' maybe its because he really likes the thing you two have together and he believes that he flatters you by saying that or even keeping you closer, BUT...this guy seems to love you..i mean...noone ever talks about MARRIAGE if he doesnt really love you..unless he is a jerk...I dont know..i think you are lucky....if this guy is normal and as a person doesnt overeact, then he sees you really seriously..Lucky you!!!!!
if you dont want: i understand you if you dont want to get married...maybe you dont think thats the right time..well..if he loves you i think he will wait for you until you decide...besides maybe you just want him to have fun...and you should know that saying ''i love you'' isnt always that serious..i mean i say ''i love you'' to everybody when they do me a favour!! its not such a big deal..just relax...
Generally, talk to him about it...ask him ''the thing you were saying the other days..Do you really feel that way for me?i mean...could you imagine us being married?''...you should be able to talk about this kind of stuff with your partner...if you feel shame maybe you should reconsider the whole situation...you have to trust the person you are with if you think that your relationship is serious..Good Luck...
ursula
2006-12-12 06:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by ursula!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age old insecurity again. What does your heart tell you?
First check if he is married to another woman. If he is not, then why do you not trust him? Does he look like a con man? By the way how old are you?
My question to you:
What will make you trust a man?
2006-12-12 14:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by StraightDrive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way he said it
2006-12-12 14:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by SKINNY BONES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋