How often should I call this girl? We have been on one date, but we have been good friends for about 6 months, before we agreed to start dating and see where it goes. I don't want to call too much, and i don't want to call NOT ENOUGH. I talk to her every night on the phone. She calls me sometimes. You know. Do you like talking to your boyfriend every day and all day? I don't want to move too fast or too slow. How often do you think i should talk to this girl on the phone where it is not too much and not "NOT ENOUGH?
2006-12-12 06:15:01 · 21 answers · asked by Aaron 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The Laws of the Phone, The First Few Months Edition lol:
I. Don't call more than once a day, unless you have told her you are going to call her back later.
II. If you say you are going to call, always call.
III. You can skip a day between calling, but don't go more than two.
IV. Skip a day at least every couple of weeks.
V. If she calls you and neither of you make plans to call later on that day, that's the call for the day.
VI. If the call lasts for less than ten minutes, feel free to call again later.
Follow these, and you will come off as concerned and interested without being clingy. Remember, these will work, but don't actually treat them as LAWS. This is just a rough guide that will never get you in trouble. Do what feels right with the two of you, that's your best bet. Good luck.
2006-12-12 06:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the girl, you see the everyday phone conversation is great when the person you're dating is new and you don't know much about them then you love talking to them all the time because it's new, but if you guys have been friends for a while then you know enough about each other, I would say call her twice a week maybe three times but not everyday, let her chase you....we love to chase
2006-12-12 14:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on that girl.. call her when u miss her, when u feel like she wants to hear your voice.. don't call too much a day, let her want more of you.. give her a space to make a move as well, just don't stay away for too long not calling, or she'll feel forgotten and left out..
before u hand up, tell her something that leaves you in her mind for a while, and impresses her..
good luck buddy!
2006-12-12 14:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by NiMO gurL! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, at the start taking everyday is good - how often did u talk when u were just friends? Everyday is ok if she likes it too if not u will get some hints lol.
2006-12-12 14:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by sexygurl678 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you arrange to meet on a certain date, then you know you`re going to get together. Then you can text or ring when you want to. You both need your own space, but as this relationship is new you`ll want to be with each other when you can, just don`t over do it. Good Luck.
2006-12-12 15:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have text messaging? Can you text her? If you can I would send her a text in the morning saying something like "was just thinking about you thought I would say have a good day." and then you should be good. But if you haven't officially set boundary's let it happen once a day is good and a periodic text says allot....
2006-12-12 15:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs some space. Unless you have something real to talk about.... don't call too much. You talk every night as it is.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-12 14:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call like 1 time extra before night time and c how her day is going and let her know u r thinking about her or something girls like that
2006-12-12 14:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by creed_1120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once every two or three days. More is suffocating. And less is showing you don't care. You also want to seem like you have a life and give her time to miss you ;-) Good luck-
2006-12-12 14:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try every other day so you want appear to clingy or needy. and maybe the girl will call you in the spaces in between and as the relationship grows then the conversations will increase
2006-12-12 14:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by nazwats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋