I know, I know. Letting go and/or ignoring the person. What if that doesn't work though? What if your spouse/boyfriend has an ex that does everything in their power to make your life miserable. Like, doing internet searches to find out where you live and work, so you can call and make up lies. What if this person really had nothing better to do than worry about your life? How do you get rid of a person like that? Oh, did I mention being 3 states apart? Restraining orders only work when your life is in danger. What would you do to get the upper hand?
2006-12-12 06:04:03 · 7 answers · asked by Nikki J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This has been going on for 3 years. We have never reacted to her, she just doesn't quit. She really is nuts.
2006-12-12 06:11:14 · update #1
there isn't much you can do except if she does cross the line and starts the harassment there then get a restraining order and until then change your number and keep that as unlisted...
2006-12-12 06:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nikki, have you considered sending a "revenge postcard" it is great. On Ebay they have it by some guy named Mark Fain of Fain's World. He's also on the internet. He will send a cookie tin all pretty to whomever you chose but it is filled with dog poop. Or a revenge postcard for a fee. Anonymous and you know what they say, revenge is very theraputic.
You may also want to send him a letter stating that slander is against the law and you pursue the matter in court. That may not work, though. good luck!
2006-12-12 14:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by ☽☮★♥ Alphα Fєmmє Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laugh at her. She is so jealous it is funny. Just laugh don't show anger cause then she has ya. People will only do something as long as the get a reaction. Once yall stop reacting what fun is it going to be to her.
2006-12-12 14:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person needs help, because she has nothing better to do than make your life miserable.
2006-12-12 14:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell that person to stop and do not ever ever let some one any one no mater how he is to make u sad or destroyed ur life be happy and ignore these people just try it i do that and it work just laugh and let they other to go to hell....with my love to have Happy life ...Sara
2006-12-12 14:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sue for slander and liable
2006-12-12 14:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by Akela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing, once you do it, they won.
Unless your talking about kill your family member then it's call WAR.
2006-12-12 14:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋