ok, i have been with my current bf for about 8 months . i hadleft my last boyfriend for him, which is someone i was with off and on for a while, totalling the time we were on would be almost 4. somewhere between that i was with someone else for 2 years and lived with him.(i know its confusing) well they both have new girlfriends and will both be at the new years party i'm going to. its a big party in a hall in a hotel and we all know alot of the same people and this is how this worked out. i feel a little uncomfortable about this situation. should i . plus i already told my boyfriend one of them was coming and i just found out about the other one should i tell him about them both to make sure he is ok with this as well
2006-12-12 06:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by LISA M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well hun, I have personally been in that situation and the only way to get over it is to face it. Don't feel uncomfortable as long as your boyfriend knows about your exs then there shouldn't be a problem. If you know that you got him and he got you then you both love each other and the exs should be your last worries at a party...your there to have fun and Start a new year and a new life with him. Just have a great time!
2006-12-12 06:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go and have a great time and not worry about it. You will always have to deal with the fact you might run into and ex or be at the same place at the same time exspecially if you share the same group of friends. There is a reason you are not with them anymore. They are briging there new girlfriends. As for telling your boyfriend you should it should be his desicion wether he will feel comfortable or not. Good luck no matter what.
2006-12-12 06:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by DANIELLE C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in the same situation. Tell your current BF but don't make a big deal of it (if you look nervous, he's going to wonder why). When you get there say a polite hello to both exes and then enjoy yourself with your current BF.....ignore everyone else.
2006-12-12 06:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not necessary that u hav to tell ur current bf about the presence of ur ex-es unless he knows them...yet if u wanna tell him just make ur heart light...then do it....dont spoil ur new year's party by tellin ur bf all these...coz ur ex-es r already the losers...dont make ur bf feel insecure...or he might feel the other way round...just b kool about it n njoy the party in the warm arms of ur bf...thinking of ur future leaving the past behind...all the best and happy new year!
2006-12-12 06:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by jrom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl....same thing happened to me, I just walked up to my ex and said __name__ this is my boyfriend ___name___ and it was all good, same thing happened yesterday, went to my aunts funeral and my ex was there...looking pretty good I might add and there was no drama all he said to me was....hows your boyfriend...so see there's nothing to worry about and I was with my ex for 6 years....go and have a great time
2006-12-12 06:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex's might be upset but ignore it and dont fall in love with your ex's.
2006-12-12 06:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by DJ C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him to make sure he is comfortable going. It wouldnt be fair to him if he didnt know.
2006-12-12 06:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by kiwi41583 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Sweet Lisa this is my worst nightmare i could ever had.
2006-12-12 06:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by Faith Of Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋