Okay, I’m not one to engage in violence. I know that it’s beneath me and to fight someone is insanely useless. However, there’s this “gentleman” at my girlfriend’s school ( she’s a senior in HS, a year younger than me [17]) and “hits on” her. My girlfriend, being the shy one that she is, doesn’t speak up for herself. But she has told him on more than one occasion that she is dating someone. Yet, he continues. What started out as a simple flirtation has blown into full-on harassment. My girlfriend doesn’t want to “say anything,” but I can’t allow this to continue. Should I take matters into my own hands? Or let her do this on her own?
2006-12-12 05:58:31 · 10 answers · asked by Kris Kardiac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you said violence is beneath you but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do whether you like it or not. Confront him, in a calm manner & explain she has no interest. If he persists, then calmly let him know that if he doesn't there's going to be hell to pay. If that still doesn't work, then break out that can of whoopass. If you let her do this on her own, he WILL continue to harass her & cause problems between the two of you.
2006-12-12 06:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by dumbdago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need to take things into your own hands. You need to confront the guy and tell him to back off that she is yours. Since you are non-violent make sure to use the correct tone of voice and mannerisms not to start a fight. However be prepared to possibly get into an altercation. You are at that age where this thing is common and even though you might be mature for your age it seems as the other guy isn't. If he doesn't understand words then very possibly he will understand getting punched in the eye.
2006-12-12 14:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to his face to stop harrassing her or you will go to the principal.
Then, if he still proceeds I recommend the following:
Clinch him by the back of the head, pull down his head and drive your knee straight into his face. Shoot for the nose. He will likely just go down.
If he wants more, deliver some Muay Thai elbows to the face, repeatedly. Ground and pound him Tito Ortiz style and good luck.
2006-12-12 14:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by Handsome Devil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to her to report him to the principal. If she is uncomfortable with it then its sexual harrassment. All you can really do is be there for her & support her. She may have a hard time with the process but once its done with & she can move on she will be that much stronger. Kudos on not threating to kick his butt. That would do no good for you or her
2006-12-12 14:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she feels the harrassment is dangerous or going too far, she can file a civil suit in court, file for a protective order, etc. She can talk to the school administration so they can talk to the guy.
But if she's ok with it..... you can't do anything. It is up to her to deal with it.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-12 14:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful! You could so busted for rumbling with a minor. Wait 'till he's 18 then pound him.
2006-12-12 14:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be fun to watch her scream this guy down in front of a whole bunch of people. Don't interfere unless he physically attacks her, in which case its perfectly acceptable to step in to stop it.
2006-12-12 14:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the teacher the situation
2006-12-12 14:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by DJ C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up Kiddo!!!
2006-12-12 14:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone not worth gettin your a-s kicked over
2006-12-12 14:04:51 · answer #10 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋