i told my boyfriend it was over and he went crazy. first he asked why and i told him that i just had no feelings left for him and then he told me "no" we love eachother too much to let it go like this. and i told him " i never said "i loved u" and then he told me "no its not over". so i just came out and told him the truth , that i cheated on him. and he went phyco. he told me " oh you think its over, it aint even close to being over, im going to find out who you cheated on me with" im scared
2006-12-12 05:21:55 · 27 answers · asked by christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First if you are truly fearful you need to warn the person you cheated on with, tell several people (in case something should happen), and also contact the police.
2006-12-12 05:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a very insecure individual. I would just get a few close guy friends to let him know you have people looking out for you and that if any more threats continue he will for sure regret it. You see most men that feel the need to try and control a women are wimps deep down and would not stand up for themselves with other guys.He will get the hint, who cares if he is pissed off about it.
Second , if he keeps trying to pursue you go down to the police station and fill out a restraining order on him. He wont be aloud to come within 500 feet of you without being taken to jail and then have a record of harassment.I am sure he has a big ego as well so that wont be something he would want, wont fit his "cool guy" style.
Good luck and be careful!
2006-12-12 05:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i;m guessing you should just tell him who the guy is , but yet again . my worry is that he's gonna pick a fight . which is what we really dont want.
thinjk it'll be a good idea to tell this new guy whats happening and what might happen .
as far as possible try to make sure no one gets physically hurt . thats my upmost concern.
thought i;d give my 2 cents worth. hope this helps even a little
all the best
pray about it and let god handle the situation
because anything that happens, god has to approve it, and if he allows it, he does so for a reason
take care
2006-12-12 05:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels like a very insecure human being. i'd only get some close guy friends to enable him understand you've human beings searching for you and that if any more desirable threats proceed he will for constructive be apologetic about it. you word maximum adult males that sense the want to target to regulate a women are wimps deep down and would not upward push up for themselves with different adult males.he receives the hint, who cares if he's annoyed about it. 2d , if he keeps attempting to pursue you go right down to the police station and fill out a restraining order on him. He wont be aloud to go back interior of 500 ft of you without being taken to reformatory and then have a list of harassment.i'm constructive he has a huge ego as well so as that wont be some thing he would like, wont in fantastic condition his "cool guy" type. reliable success and be careful!
2016-10-18 04:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by dopico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut all communication with your ex, tell the dude you cheated on him with so he can be ready for whatever happens if anything happens. If he tries to contact you tell him you will contact the authorities if he continues to act that way towards you. He'll get over it in time but you need to stay away from the guy as much as possible.
2006-12-12 05:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and let them know about the situation. A visit from a uniformed officer might be just the wake up call he needs. Don't put up with it, period. Good luck to you, and be smart and careful, but don't let this jerk run your life. Get a restraining order if you have to, and take the necessary steps to protect yourself, whatever they are.
2006-12-12 05:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to be scared. Bet now you wished you hadnt said that you stepped out on him. Try avoid being around him without someone else around you. If all else fails you can take out papers on him if he is really threating you. Good luck.
2006-12-12 05:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most states you can get a restraining order if there is a threat made against you. My advice stay as far away as possible and get a restraining order if necessary.
2006-12-12 05:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by SHERRI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEP!!!! HE IS CRAZY BUT GUESS WHAT ELSE??? YOU WERE WRONG, YOU HANDLED IT WRONG, obviously he had no idea that the relationship was rocky, or on the brinks of breakup~ so yes it caught him off guard!! he didnt even see it coming while you have been seeminly leading him on & keeping him in the dark while you secretly, & inconsideratly been moving on with your life, it was cruel of you to handle it that way, now of course you shouldnt be with someone that you dont wanna be with but to lead him inthe dark & then drop the bomb on him that way~IS WRONG!!!!
2006-12-12 05:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is all talk, play him at his own game, tell him to go and find the boy you cheated with call his bluff. my ex has threatened me for over a year now and still nothing has happened they are all talk no action unless he has mental problems i would say youve got nothing to worry about
hope this helps
2006-12-12 05:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by peglit_1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋